When to get pregnant ?

Why ?

" Oh so ?"

The words are still ringing in my ears until this moment when it has been 2 today but the words still imprint how do I not think mas Amir's mother will be happy at all times hearing that Amir and I will have children, but in fact the expression that Amir's mother showed us was quite unexpected .

" Are you happy with this news ?" Ask Amir to his mother .

" Yes" replied Mas Amir's mother in an ordinary tone .

" Mommy should make a dong thanksgiving event for Amir and Astri will be daunted again the mother will Nerima granddaughter" said Hesti

We both smiled at Hesti .

" Alah, what thanksgiving ? In part, the mother has also got grandchildren from you so why make a thanksgiving - add the cost aja, mending the money saved huh no mir ? Anyway Amir why rush to have a child? Though it's good as yesterday you can go where without anyone bothering, right ? So now there are many young couples - mudi childfree "Reveal mother .

" Astagfirullah, mother didn't her own mother want a grandchild from us before ? Mother also always came to our house and asked Amir when Astri was pregnant ? When can you hold the grandchild of your first child ? Mother also told us to go to the shaman, to the massage people to the doctor to get children as soon as possible ? Now Amir and Astri have tried to make the mother happy to grant the mother's wish so that the mother can hold the child Amir but the mother now even talk like this ?" Reveal mas Amir .

" Yes that was mir , according to the mother now do not have to think of having children first , some have children that even make your finances thin , not yet the cost of labor , the cost after birth , & the cost of labor ,cost of buying necessities, plus school fees and much more . Lagian mir your business has not developed large, different from Priyan furniture is getting more advanced days, right Hesti ?"

" Bwanget ma'am, anyways mir ,Astri today clildfree is good you used to enjoy life without child interference and what the mother said was true you will not be able to finance your child later to high because of the increasing needs and styles life is getting more and more and more "Hesti replied.

Amir was silent without answering .

" I'm sorry, ma'am, mbak Nesti if Astri participate in the opinion, according to Astri your thoughts are too far in addressing this matter , me and Mas. Amir does have a business that is not too big but I think enough oh yes kemaren Astri also heard lectures online from his Ustadz Adi Hidayat

Explaining about childfree in the view of Islam

Childfree does not violate the positive law that applies, but has violated the nature of marriage.

"Therefore there are verses of the Qur'an which give the image that the children of the offspring can intercede for their parents by their charity, by their prayers, with the goodness that they weave," said Ustaz Adi Hidayat.

For example, the virtue of having children who can raise the degree of their parents.

That way someone can continue to flow his reward even though he has died, it is one of the virtues of having a descendant of sholeh.

According to Ustaz Adi Hidayat, this childfree view is actually not a new thing, it has also existed in the days of jahiliyah before.

"This is not new actually, so there are various verses that affirm, do not let you execute your children for fear of poverty, fear of not being able to provide sustenance, he said, it was there until the verse came down affirming it," said Ustaz Adi Hidayat.

Ustaz Adi Hidayat gave a booming statement based on the Quranic verse, to supporters of the childfree view who are afraid to have children for economic reasons.

"May the sustenance of the old man be entrusted to his son,"

And it should be emphasized that the sustenance is not only the context of property, but its broader meaning such as tranquility, health, happiness, and so forth given by Allah SWT.

" So if the mother and mother of Hesti think that we can not afford to charge our child later, it is a big mistake because we believe Rizki is God who ngatur "

" Alah, recently also see the lecture on online alone is already good at talking " Said mother-in-law .

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" Our dear Astri the way - the yuk way ?"

" Amir doesn't work ?"

" Please want your friends to be with our prospective children "

" Okay, have you gone ?"

On the way we accidentally saw Priyan with his friends walking past us.

Why ??

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