
"I Accept the marriage and marriage of Anita Manaf bint Abdul Manaf with the mascawin paid in cash"
"WELL"
"Alhamdulillah" gratitude for the ongoing ijab qabul that brother Dimas tunasikan in happy welcome mixed with grief by all family members.The atmosphere of marriage that in general will be carried out is magnificent, luxurious, luxurious, and happy, the mix of happiness was very different in our home.
Not the curved yellow janur in our yard, but the white flag that occupies our yard.no decorations or chairs.not even invited guests.
In front of the whole family we held ijab qabul.
The blank look of Dimas's eyes as if he still could not believe that he had just held a qabul ijab with Anisa's sister, his beloved wife.
I know, how she feels, I know what it's like to lose a loved one, I also know very well her love for Anisa's sister, but this is God's decree... God called Anisa's sister on the day of the birth of her baby "Joseph ".
"Joseph needs a mother figure, and,, he is still very small, how can we let Joseph live only with Dimas? " mother cried in my arms, I also shed tears, unable to answer mother's questions at this time.
"Nita mother please, be the mother of Joseph, say selfish mother but mother can not if Joseph must be cared for and raised without the presence of a mother figure"
"Mom how can I occupy the place of Anisa's sister, how can I replace Anisa's sister, sorry I can't ma'am" I said flatly, I know the intention of mother asking me to be Yusuf's mother, because I am the only sister of Anisa, but my heart is not until when I have to replace the position of Anisa's sister.
"try the good thoughts, son.... Joseph is like your Son, he is the son of your brother, be his mother, be his protector, be his shelter, give your love and affection to Joseph. She deserves it." said that word that Dimas's mother told me three days after Anisa's death.
"quiet Anita calm your heart.Your intention is to be Joseph's mother, live this whole thing sincerely." I tried to calm my heart.
after some time Dimas came out of the bathroom, his gaze showed a sense of anger and also a look of blame. I know actually he did not expect this marriage. how could within 3 days after the death of his beloved wife he remarry.
"I've got my change of clothes ready" I said as much as I could with my eyes unable to look at him
"Hemm" was the only answer I heard from him
"i have prepared dinner, if you need me, I am in Joseph's room "
"Hemm" he replied again by walking to pick up the change of clothes I had prepared.
already the seventh day after the birth of Joseph, means that already Seven days also the departure of sister Anisa, the house that had been visited by many relatives now live three of us. one by one the families came home , continue their lives with their families.
"Mother Dimas and Yusuf nak. love them, love them with all your heart.Mommy can not stay here with you, because mother also has to take care of the father" said Mas Dimas' mother bamitan,
"mom pray your family will be a family of sakinah, mawadah, warrahmah, devote to your husband be a coolant in this house"
mother approached Mas Dimas, grasped by his son's shoulder, mother began to say "Be a Priest for your little family" "ikhlas and pray Anisa always, always, he'll be very happy to know that Joseph was taken care of by you and Anita"
after the return of the mother, the house that had been crowded became quiet, only occasionally the sound of Joseph whining asking for milk or feeling uncomfortable because the diaper was uncomfortable.