The Love Behind Betrayal

26. Private Les Personality

Naura was introduced to a teacher who taught about personality recognition and still other classes that would be followed by Naura such as taking table manner classes and Erika classes.

That morning Naura received basic knowledge to shape her wild personality for the better.

Miss Ika will introduce five things related to personality.

"Miss Ika!" This is my daughter-in-law Naura and Naura, this is Miss Ika who will accompany you while learning the ins and outs of the female world." Madame Nunung.

The two shook hands and mentioned each other's names.

"Naura mami can't accompany you to study, baby. There is important business that you have to do. Miss Ika, I have my daughter-in-law with you. Make her a great woman!" Madam Nunung then left the two.

"Thank you mami!" Naura hugged her mom.

"Can we start Miss Naura?" Ask Miss Ika.

"Oh yes, please Miss Ika!"

Miss Ika began the lesson by introducing five personality elements that Naura had to learn.

"Miss!"

"Call me my name is Naura!" No frills, miss!" Pinta Naura is taken in by Miss Ika.

"Alright Naura!" Now you must pay attention and listen to the lessons I will give about personality formation.

There are five steps you should know about this; they are;

Appreciate yourself, learn to have strong principles, recognize and control yourself, improve the past and last do not stop to continue learning.

Well, we start with the first thing with we start appreciating ourselves.

Appreciate Yourself

Many adults who later grow up to be personal that is not good in terms of personality and character because he feels disappointed with himself.

The disappointment can come from desires and ideals that are not realized, less accepting of self-condition and much more.

Now is the time to respect yourself as a way of forming good character. Accept self-deficiency as a form of excess that is not owned by others.

Realize that you have limitations so you don't always have to be perfect. Appreciate failure as a path to success at a later time." Said madam Ika.

"Well Miss Ika, I've been devastated because I wanted something, I mean to realize my ideals as a teacher but I don't know to make it happen because of my poverty." Plain Naura speech.

"Is that why I became temperamentally easy?" Ask Naura.

"It may be Naura but after learning this you will change. Now we go back to the second element of personality, which is learning to have strong principles.

People who are called to have a good personality are those who are strong characters. It could be interpreted as someone who is not easily influenced by others because it has strong principles.

The principle in question is of course something that is positive and builds your personal self.

Start now to always learn and understand what can be done and what is forbidden for you.

For example, someone invites you to gossip, antagonize others, or, visit places of crime or affect your household in a way you are easily ignited emotions when someone says your husband cheated and you immediately hit it without confirming it first with your partner.

Well, you must hold the principle firmly so as not to be easily influenced by people and environments that often teach you bad things.

Learn the norms that apply in society and how you should behave so you know how to form a good personality." Imbuh Miss Ika.

If anyone tells you about his affair, what's the point of maintaining that stupid principle?" Naura did not accept the second point that harmed her.

"Maybe you can secretly investigate without having to show your best friend how shocked you feel when you know from his mouth, be calm as if you are not affected by his whisperings so that he does not succeed in provoking you." The Miss Ika.

Naura seemed to understand what Miss Ika was saying while nodding a small nod as a sign of understanding.

"Do we continue Naura ?"

"Hm!"

Now the third point is to know and control yourself.

The third way is to recognize how you really are, what you like, what makes you the spirit of learning and so on.

The opposite is true of anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, embarrassed and insecure, especially in front of others.

After knowing and knowing yourself well then you will be easier to control negative feelings such as shame, indifference and so on.

Control and divert these negative feelings to activities that you like and useful such as cooking, planting trees or flowers, attending lectures, gathering with people and maybe also becoming a writer, because it will shape your personality more mature and mature in thinking."

"Ko Miss Ika knows I love cooking. I'll make some food for miss Ika." Naura said while blushing in embarrassment.

"really?" I'm waiting for Naura's promise." Sahut Miss Ika. Well, now we enter the fourth point which is to improve the past and this is the most important thing to organize the future.

If we want to have a future full of happiness, then we must improve the past.

One way to form good character is to accept and forgive all who were not good to you in the past.

Everyone makes mistakes and deserves a second chance. Do your best for your future by not repeating the same mistakes in the past." Said Miss Ika.

Until the fourth point Naura stunned considering the failure of his first household because of his own actions over many shortcomings in him.

Who would have thought that lack would bring blessing in his life by being met with Mr. Reno, his future husband at this time.

"Miss Ika!" Does a wife have to learn as many things as she wants?" Ask Naura lirih.

"Being a wife is not easy because she has to learn to please her husband through her eyes that is when looking at you cool her heart in a way you have appeared neat and beautiful before your husband arrives home and welcomes her with your smile the most charming.

The second one pleases his stomach, you must be a champion because you are good at cooking and the last one serves him in bed by providing the best service to satisfy him. If you master all three things he will not turn to other women because his needs you have met all but the husband who is cheating." Said Miss Ika full of emphasis on her sentence.

Naura felt a lot of enlightenment she had gained from Miss Ika in this first lesson.

"And the last of our first lesson sessions today is Never stop learning.

A person's personality can change over time when he or she stops learning about the good things in life.

Therefore, so that you can always maintain a good personality in yourself continue to learn about the good that is in this life.

"Digest the potential in yourself by taking the higher education you are interested in, learning religion as a provision you become the first madrassa to educate your children before they go to school and the last to learn many things related to your life so that your beauty will be of value to the intellectual who the balance that's inside you." Miss Ika covered her first lesson today on Naura.

"Thank you Miss Ika!" I'll learn anything that supports my life to benefit my household." Naura.

Naura prepared some snacks for Miss Ika that she had made.

The two chatted with each other by exchanging ideas around household matters.

Not long ago Mr. Reno came home and Miss Ika immediately said goodbye to this couple.