
The moonlight penetrated through the cracks of the room window. The wind blew against Arrahma's body. For two days, he slept alone. Because her husband went out of town to inaugurate a new factory.
“Rahma, stay in the room! Don't come out, there will be a waiter who will send you food!” Arrahma remembered the message her husband had given her. Before leaving.
“Before I get home, you can't get out of the room! I don't want you talking to traitors! You are afraid to follow along too!” abugn.
Arrahma breathed a heavy breath. When I remember Zola's words.
“Actually, what makes Aa like this! He was forcing his will too much!”
“As if want to make everyone submit to him.” Arrahma paced back and forth while biting his lower lip.
“Sepeti wants to get recognition from others. If he is in power!” Arrahma tapped his temple with his index finger.
“Could this be the effect of faulty parenting?” Arrahma became guessing, trying to understand what was really happening.
“Aa, say if Dad-in-law, always give high rules but Dad! He never gave an appreciation or reward when Aa, managed to do what Father-in-law wanted!” Arrahma sat in the chair while scribbling HVS paper.
“This means enter the parenting style category. Authoritative parenting Damanding X Unresponsive!” The girl wrapped her writing.
“Parenting style like this will bring a diverse response.”
“Child will constantly feel the need to achieve perfection. But he felt he was never able and felt worthless when he could not meet the expectations of parents. The fall is too burdening for the child!” Arrahma tapped on the ballpoint pen on his desk.
“Can also form a child into a passive. And don't dare stand up for himself.” The girl shook her head because this effect did not happen to her husband.
“Which is more severe the child can be a dissident, for example!” Arrahma sizzled softly as this happened with her husband.
“Astagfiruah, because wrong parenting can affect the future of children. It can even affect a child's relationship as an adult! With others.”
“Yes Allah! If only Aa, the body becomes a person who is reliable, exploitative and good at self-control or can be said to be good side effect!” Arahma breathed out slowly.
“I can say Father-in-law managed to educate his son. But this is why Aa, even so dissidents have no manners!”
“What is this reason, related to the passing of the late mother-in-law?” Arrahma was confused by the story of her husband's life.
“I have to find out! But before that, I have to think about how I should change Aa's attitude!”
“But, what attitude should I change?” Arrahma seemed to be thinking hard.
“Ah .. I know, Aa that's the person she wants to be considered if she's useful to others. He also liked if that person depended on him! Means I should, feel need of her. Feeling that he is important to me!”
“Okey we do!”
“Although I should look low, but it doesn't matter as long as Aa, can be a good personal!”
“Looking attention and needing attention from him is an answer!”
“The next goal is to reconcile the Aa family! And Aa doesn't blame Father-in-law, for not properly educating her!”
“Now Rahma, have a reason to stay with Aa! Maintaining this marriage, the matter of love. It's the last business because love comes from the Most Love! What matters is that my life is beneficial to others. And walk in the way of Allah!”
"It's also useful that I read self healing books. Even in this book, we can know some parenting styles!"
Arrahma grabbed her phone the girl let out a heavy sigh.
“Bismilah, I'll start tonight too!”
"Assalamualaikum, when will I go home? I don't know what to do, it feels lonely. There's nothing I can do, if only Aa was here. Hem must be more fun, Rahma won't feel alone!"Arrahma grimaced as he read the message he wrote.
“I'm ashamed, O God! Time soaking kayak ganjen begging attention!” Arrahma covered his face.
“Wes ra opo-opo Arrahma am bojo dewe no problem! ”
“But if Aa, how disgusted! Then if I say cheap right nyesek!” Arrahma's thumb pressed the send button.
The tech! Check two ashes.
“Hey, why sent! I'm removing it still ashes!” But when he wants to delete the message he sent. His eyes widened as he read the typing status of A Zola.
TBC...