
Arpin and Boy were already sitting near the Jidan bang, and the sharp gaze from Risa made the two of them bow.
"when did you two stay here?"
Then Arpin looked at my future wife bravely.
"i've talked to both parents in the village, and suggested Arpin to study for at least a year here.
Then I went home and started raising in the village.
Science from campus and work experience here, will be my capital to open a farm in the village, because the two Ku people have divided the land for their children.
We've both been accepted by Bernat for work here and we've both got permission to stay here."
"let's have it free."
"who said free?"
Suddenly Riyan refuted Risa's words and then sat down near Arpin.
"Arpin and Boy, every morning in charge of cleaning the house and everything else, then helping me to prepare breakfast.
We work together here, and nothing is free.
We work and we get wages, it's like that.
They are both still single and a large and comfortable house is suitable to be a place to live.
Why contract another house if you have a good and extraordinary brother.
Isn't that bang Bernat?"
"really said Riyan, is it wrong that Arpin and Boy live here?"
"is bang, they're both allowed to stay here while we're not."
"hadehh.........
Here are many men who live, and you're here to gather kebo."
We were surprised at the arrival of Risma's mother, who ranted at Diana's rebuttal.
"so you mean the four of you want to stay in this house too, so you can be alone with your girlfriends.
it's not that easy, girls, wait until you're their legal wives."
"yes.bude....."
Answer the four girls listlessly, and then look at Risma's mom with a strange look.
"bude, what's the matter here?"
"fetch the four of you, no history of women coming to men's homes.
Come home......
It's a shame, go home... go home........"
Frustrated, Risma answered the question of her father, Risa, and forced the four of them to go home.
"Bude.....
Risa and friends came here to talk about my marriage to Bernat's bang."
"not much reason Risa, all have been prepared by the family.
if there's anything to talk about, tomorrow it'll be.
Want to talk about home or work? no need to worry Risa.
Bernat son has prepared everything, you just need to prepare your heart and love for Bernat.
Go home..... "
If Miss Risma had acted, no one would dare to light her up.
But suddenly Miss Risma turned to me, what's wrong?
"son Bernat....
As long as Risa isn't your wife, so long as I have the right to forbid her from coming here without your supervision.
Later after becoming your wife, it is up to Bernard to take my bangs wherever you want.
I just smiled in response to Risma's words, and indeed I have no right because I am not Risa's husband yet.
"when did you get married?"
Bang Jidan asked suddenly after bu Risma brought her bangs home and her genk.
"after Risa finished graduation bang, currently also preparing land planning in Lampung.
After marriage will stay for a while in Lampung, to take care of all the farms.
What about brother? when to propose to Tiara?"
"Monday in front of prospective buyers of Tiara's house will pay off the purchase of her house, and after that we will be engaged and then married.
About two weeks away, hopefully smooth and no hitch from the Tiara family.
Everything has been prepared by my brother's family, we just have to carry out and provide funds.
The issue of church and customs, building, catering and invitations will be the business of your parents.
Then the invitation, the type of building decoration and also the wedding dress will be taken care of by Tiara."
"if what is his duty?"
"donator."
hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha haha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha haha
We all laughed, because bang Jidan said.
"i hear yes ni ya bang, usually the Batak tribe if the wedding party of his son and his invitation was more than the parties of both parents.
is that really bang?"
"that's right Riyan, at best my invitation will be only colleagues and colleagues Tiara.
The rest is an invitation of both brides, both from the bride and the bridegroom.
family from the mother, family from the father, family from the father's parents and also the mother's parents.
others from the family of his father's sisters and also his mother's sisters.
As well as the family ponakan father and also ponakan mama.
His families were invited again and then will be classified based on customary order later.
Likewise with the bride's family, the family will also do the same.
therefore, if the Batak tribe does a traditional wedding party, it never eats a buffet.
Because surely it won't be enough, everything's in rations."
"is everyone going to get a bang?"
"that's unique, no matter how many wedding traditional parties all certainly get rations to eat.
Actually, this is how, before our parents had attended a traditional party to another family.
The more diligent to the traditional party, then most likely the traditional party that will be carried out will be more crowded.
Actually we can not invite all families, so we just estimate how many invitations will be spread and likely to attend our events.
a definite calculation is made, such as invitations spread as many as five hundred invitations.
Well.....
we have to prepare food for eight hundred servings of food, and back up another hundred portions."
"the invitation was spread five hundred, then prepared eight hundred meals and a reserve of one hundred more.
is that bang over?"
"if ngak run out, yes share again and it must be accommodated, no words wasted if for food.
Better more than less, that's the batak principle.
Another with a snack, in the form of lappet is glutinous rice cakes wrapped in banana leaves, coffee and tea and boiled beans.
for food alone, we have to spend about fifty million more, and it is different from the cost of marriage such as church expenses, customary events and also compulsory dowry."
It is amazing to explain from bang Jidan about the wedding customs of the Batak tribe.