She's Wife In Dream

Loss of the Hygiene

"Actually, I've been married!" Harjunot glared at Fitri's reply.

Fitri's answer kept turning in his brain. For some reason there was a sudden sense of disappointment in his heart, as if he was being lied to by fate. Quickly, Harjunot brushed off those negative thoughts. If his destiny is to marry a woman who has been married before. What's the problem? Isn't that better? Even if she was no longer a virgin, it was because she gave her chastity to her former husband. It's not more noble, though,. And that purity is not about the missing hymen.

Fitri looked at Harjunot's face, knowing that her husband was in shock with the truth.

"Mas Arjunot! Disappointed, huh?"

Harjunot was awakened by the soft voice that echoed in his ear. "N-no! Of course not! Whatever you have in you is the flaws and advantages you have. I must be able to accept it, because when Ijab qobul has been spoken. That is where a man promises to God, to receive the good and bad of our spouse. And a man must be ready to meet the needs of his wife and children later. Then, Fit you don't think a no-no. I've committed myself. That who is my wife is the one I love, and I must be ready to accept the shortcomings and advantages" Harjunot held both shoulders of his wife.

"Despite the status of widows?" The eyes of both of them were squaring.

"I don't care about your status! Now we are destined to be together, yes we have to go. You have a past, I have a past too! But we, don't always look back. Because if that happens, we won't be able to move forward. We're using 3M!"

"Regulate, stare and steady the heart. For a brighter and better future. And believe that God is preparing happiness for us!" Harjunot smiled faintly as he looked at his wife.

Fitri is very grateful to have a companion like Harjunot.

"Mas Arjunot, how can you accept this reality?" Fitri wanted to know why Harjunot could be seikhlas and selegowo at that time.

"The fit! Sometimes we have to feel heartbreak and failure repeatedly. Until it really makes us, don't expect too much of ourselves. And with what we do or what we do. Even with someone we're proud of."

"In that way, we're kind of resigned. Yes, it's not the first time. I fell, I broke or what I planned failed miserably."

"Or what I just didn't live up to my expectations. It's not the end of the world, maybe it's God's way! Making us realize that, we must depend on Him and only on God do we place our hope."

"And therein is God Almighty, helping us to be patient and strong, essentially resilient."

"You slammed right-left cake, you're ra trouble! Because we've been in positions like that before."

"So even if it fails, or something we expect does not match expectations. Well, we're nothing, maybe this is the best of you God. Like what happened to me now! Why am I seikhlas?"

"It is all because of God, who strengthens my heart and makes me aware. That his choice, far better than what I thought was good!"

"I didn't expect, if I was a match with a good, noble-hearted man like you!" Fitri smiled thinly.

"I'm not who you think I am, it's all because of my friends. Who always gives advice and knowledge on how to accept the destiny that God has set!"

It's true that the saying goes that your environment determines who you really are. If the environment is good, of course, our personality will be the same as theirs. And vice versa.

"Oh ..ya Fit! Where are you really?"

"My mother and father were French! But when I was ten, they died. So I live with Grandpa! We are Buddhist followers! Then when I was twelve, we moved to Malaysia, where my grandfather met Grandma!"

"I mean, the Grandma you hit?"

"Yes!"

"No! She's my step-grandmother! Well, after that Grandpa wants to marry Grandma! My grandmother was a Muslim from Indonesia. If he wants to marry a Muslim man, too. So Grandpa, decided to convert. It's not just because of love alone, before Grandpa, when teenagers often move beliefs."

"But, Grandpa said every belief he held. Can't make him get peace of soul."

" The religion he has never followed is Islam. So Grandpa, think. What's wrong with learning about Islam knowing about God."

" And that's where Grandpa just realized, if the God he worshipped it should be able to provide benefits and harm. And of course only God has that. It should be that God, undamaged, not dead and not made by man. And Grandpa, just realized what he worshipped before. That's a big mistake, not true."

"And Isa Al-Masih the son of Mary was the prophet Isa as, who was none other than he was human. And he was created by God!"

" God of the universe! With the greatness of God. And the truth is that Al-Masih Isa son of Mary. Not Isa Al-Masih son of Maryam!" Fitri gave a moment's pause before opening her mouth again. "In the holy book of the Qur'an it is explained how the name of Al-Masih Isa son of Maryam exists. Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said:

"(Remember) when the angels said, "O Mary! Verily, Allah sends you glad tidings about a sentence (word) from Him (i.e., a son), his name is Al-Masih 'Isa son of Mary, a leading man in the world and in the Hereafter, and including those who are brought near (to Allah),"

(QS. Ali' Imran 3: Verse 45)"

"Birth by a perfect woman, named Maryam without a father. And that is where man must be aware and be able to think that the Power of God is Great! The thing is, God, it has to be stronger. The phrase Mukholafatul Lilhawaditsi means different from His creation.! It's very clear that if it's God, it's not the same as anything. God is one and different. And in the Qur'an it is explained that"

"Really, you (the disbelievers) and what you worship besides Allah are the fuel of Hell. You (definitely) got into it."

(QS. Al-Anbiya 21: Verse 98)"

"We should think that those we worship in this world cannot help us from the hell God has prepared. Then why do we not understand, if he whom we worship just burned in hell. Let alone their worshippers, how could they think such a dime. Try to learn the Qur'an, will definitely get clear instructions there! The number of books that have been revealed is 114 scriptures. While what we are obliged to believe are the 4 great books, the Torah, the Zabur of the Gospel and the Qur'an! And the Qur'an is the book that includes all the previous books. So glorious is the Qur'an, that every verse you read. Sometimes there is an answer, from your question. Those great people, for learning the Qur'an. In the Qur'an many things are explained, from the small to the big, all explained clearly. For example, how God sent rain down to earth, then removed the water that soaked the soil, we never think like that. If you want to know how God removed the water. Learn the Qur'an!" Fitri poked her husband's nose while chuckling. While Harjunot, stupefied because Fitri is very smart.

"I have heard that wives will have the same nature as Rasullullah's wives! Are you like Umm Mumin Aisyah Radhiyallahu?" Harjunot asked, while Fitri smiled shyly.

"Gee ... Fitri is grateful if it is true! But that's not true Mas Arjunot! Umm Mumin that one, very smart and smart! I idolized him so much!"

"Even because of him we can know what the Prophet is! Do it at home, from his writing we can practice what the Prophet taught, just a small example. When a man you'min can't sleep, he asks how to sleep."

"Rasulullah replied think! And it was Ummul mukminin Aisha Radhiyallahu Anhu, who narrated! If it is not so wrong, Fitri does not understand. So I failed to understand!" Fitri chuckled amusedly because of his own answer.

"Hmmm .. so if you read do not let the comma must reach the point. And it has to be examined to make it clearer. Let me teach you husband, good. And my husband understands!" Harjunot pinched both of his wife's cheeks.

"Ouch..."

"I don't think this hurts Fit?"

"Well, it's Mas Arjunot who nyubit ya don't hurt dong! The one in pain Fitri, the one pinched! Huh! Fitri blew Harjunot's face. Make the man crumble.

"Oh .. Yes Fit! Your grandfather converted, you immediately followed?"

Fitri shook his head, leaving Harjunot confused.

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