PORTRAITS
PART 26 REGRETS
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
**THE DIRECTION THAT IS EXPRESSED IS NOT A RELIEF
BUT ON THE CONTRARY, THE ANGER THAT IS FORGOTTEN WILL MAKE A PERSON EXPERIENCE
CONTRITION.
'Prophet SAW said, Strong people are not good at wrestling. A strong person is one who is able to hold himself back in times of anger. (CHR. Al Bukhari).'
'From Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu ‘anhu said, a man said to the Prophet shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, “Give me a will.” He replied, “Don't you be angry.” The man repeated his request, (however) Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam (always) replied, “Do not be angry.” (CHR. Bukhari) [SN. Bukhari, no. 6116**] *
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The scorching rays of the sun burst into the house impolitely through the window making the face exposed to the light feel disturbed, his eyebrows frowned he was hitting the light with his hands.
“sayang...close his curtain” his whine spoiled.
“Sugar.. curtain close” again
“Har..” he woke up and looked around, quiet.no Haru there, where his beautiful wife was. He was about to go down but stopped him from entering the bathroom to clean himself, and another delivery he did not pray dawn and neglected to pray at night, usually Haru always woke him up. Finished bathing and changing into casual clothes he went down and looked around his apartment neat and quiet silent, as he was about to step away from the tv room his feet hung and then back he pijaki, as he was, he was stunned by his memory spinning like a video re-broadcast, even his heart felt pain.
“what I said. astagfirullah. yayallah forgive me for hurting him.” regretted with tears, he saw the phone lying down turned out to belong to Zahra he opened the phone and checked the last call that turned out from his mother's mommy.
“astgfirullah, Haru.. Zahra... Haru.” he cried no voice password apartment reads he hoped it was his wife but wrong turns out mommy and daddy.
“has woken you” said daddy sharp.
“daddy mommy” as he was about to greet his daddy and mommy they gawk away, Kenza is aware of , very aware of his mistake. He followed the steps of the two old men who entered the lower room.
“dad Zahra no Dad” says mommy panic.
“try phone mom”
“Zahra don't bring phone dad”
“silently.. we don't need you to say” revealed mommy sharp.
Kenza looked down on the net distracted by the object and the piece of paper that was uttered near the sleeping lamp caught his attention he approached the nightstand and took the object and a piece of paper.
read it carefully, and
When he understood his eyes wide, his heart was concerned to remember the act that hurt the heart of the woman he loved and was now pregnant with his son's flesh and blood.
Without a word he put the thing back and the paper on the nightstand he came out in a hurry. Mommy is about to catch up but daddy gets in the way of giving them time to talk and mommy understands.
“we'll have another grandson”
“ia.. she is here to bring her parents closer again”ucap daddy and mommy pray hopefully.
* Hadist Reference. https://rumaysho.com/19205\-hadits\-arbain\-16\-jangan\-marah.html
* Tips and How to Resist Anger.
Reading ta’awudz, asking God for protection from Satan's temptations
(And if Satan comes to tempt you, take refuge in Allah. Verily He is All-Hearing All-Knowing.” (QS. Al-A’raf: 200)
(If a person is angry, then he says, ‘A’udzu billah (I ask for protection to God)’, then let go of his anger.” (CHR. As-Sahmi in Date Jarjan, 252. Al-Ahadits Ash-Shahihah Lineage, no. 1376))
Quiescent
(If one of you is angry, shut up.” (CHR. Ahmad, 1:239. Shaykh Shu’aib Al-Arnauth said that this sanad hadith hasan lighairihi).
Change positions
(If one of you is angry when you stand up, then sit down. If the anger is gone (that's enough). But if it does not disappear anyway then lie down.” (CHR. Abu Daud, no. 4782. Al-Hafizh Abu Thahir said that this hadith is shahih).
Take the water wudhu
(The anger is from Satan and the devil is created from fire. The fire will be extinguished with water. When one of you is angry, it should be ablution.” (CHR. Abu Daud, no. 4784. Al-Hafizh Abu Thahir said that the sanad hadith is hasan).
Remember the Prophet's will of Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam and his promise
(From Mu’adz radhiyallahu ‘anhu, Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda,
مَنْ كَظَمَ غَيْظاً وَهُوَ قَادِرٌ عَلَى أَنْ يُنَفِّذهُ دَعَأهُ اللهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ عَلَى رُؤُوْسِ الْخَلاَئِقِ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ حَتَّى يُخَيِّرَهُ مِنَ الْحُوْرِ مَا شَاءَ
“Whoever withholds his anger when he is able to vent it, God will call him before the creatures on the Day of Resurrection to give him the choice of angel he wants.” (CHR. Abu Daud, no. 4777; Ibn Majah, no. 4186. Al-Hafizh Abu Thahir said that this hadith is sanadnya hasan)
From Abu Ad-Darda’ radhiyallahu ‘anhu, he said, “O Prophet of Allah show me a practice that can include in heaven.” Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam then bersabda,
لاَ تَغْضَبْ وَلَكَ الْجَنَّةُ
“Do not be angry, then for you heaven.” (CHR. Thabrani in Al-Kabir. See Shahih At-Targhib wa At-Tarhib, this hadith shahih lithairihi).
* Refresher : https://rumaysho.com/19205\-hadits\-arbain\-16\-jangan\-marah.html.
Allah a'lam..
May we also be able to hold back our anger..😀
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