OVERNIGHT WITH CEO
Finally, a Marriage Book!
After breakfast was served in the living room of the Asmara house, then they all ate together filled with warmth. Home cooking is the best especially indeed Bu Asih and Bu Lastri pinter cook, the more mantul breakfast.
Pregnant women among them were not left to enjoy the dish, so greedy that her husband was astonished
"My wife eats a lot of it. Naturally there were two of my children in his stomach hihi" inner Alfano who observed his wife silent.
At 7am, breakfast was finished. Everyone is preparing to wear special clothes for today to welcome the wedding of Alfano and Asmara.
Right at 7 am, Alfano and Asmara have been wearing special clothes from Bu Sekar, a tailor friend of Bu Laras in Bandung.
"MasyaAllah, beautiful very daughter-in-law mami" said Bu Laras who had been with others in the living room waiting for the bride.
"MasyaAllah, handsome also nih mother's daughter-in-law" said Bu Asih who also praised Alfano.
Alfano and Asmara who were praised by the in-laws each just looked at each other and smiled at their teeth.
"Let's go. The predecessor is ready in KUA" said Mr. Wawang who already knows the predecessor.
"Yes, father" said Alfano.
It turns out that when they came out, there were Alpard cars and drivers.
"Alfano and Asmara. Mami has pinjem mami's friend's car to be your wedding car today. The intention is to buy for your wedding gifts here but Alfani forbid mami he said you do not need a big car gini, so mami pinjemin aja" explained Bu Laras told the info about alpard cars in front of the house.
"Ah mami, we can ride together. I also have enough cars for us" said Alfano who looks less happy his mother is too easy for him and impressed to show off the wealth in the wife's family. Though the family of Mr. Wawang is very happy if you have a besan who can accept his daughter as well as this.
Alfano's words made Asmara nudged her husband's hand and stared with a look of intimidation that he could not appreciate the efforts of Bu Laras.
"Thank you very much, mommy. We are both very happy, mom cares about us. Sister Alfani is right, it seems we both do not need a car of this size yet, so Alhamdulillaah mami just borrow hihi" interrupted Asmara with a happy gaze to make Bu Laras not too disappointed after hearing his son's response.
Alfano also thanked the mother for her efforts to make her and her wife happy.
"Sorry mi, Alfano just did not want mami bothered2 but because there is a cara for us, thank you very much my dear mama. I love u" said Alfano while hugging Bu Laras.
The mother received the hug with a smile and everyone who saw it was happy to see the interaction of the child and his mother were so warm.
Finally, Alfano and Asmara boarded the Alpard car that had been prepared, then the new car Pak Wawang driven by Mr. Jarman and his wife and two twin nephews who were Rani Rian , while the camry car owned by Alfano was driven by Alfani with Bu Laras, Bu Asih and Pak Wawang.
The three cars went to KUA. On the way, Bu Laras gets a call from his brother who took the time to attend the wedding of Alfano and Asmara, informing if they immediately followed to KUA where their nephew would be married. Bu Laras also sent the location.
About 30 minutes, they were all present at the intended KUA shortly 1 car containing 4 people, the family of Bu Laras came. There's Om Ibrahim and Aunt Cici and Om Hendra and Aunt Ussy. Both om of Alfano Alfani is the younger brother of Bu Laras and Bibi and Aunt are the sister-in-law of Bu Laras.
In front of KUA there are already 2 officers and 1 penghulu who welcomed the group of relatives of Asmara & Alfano. Thankfully the KUA is large enough that there is indeed 1 special room such as a hall to conduct a contract.
When entering the KUA, Alfano never let go of Asmara's hand until they sat in an adjoining chair. Mr. Wawang as a marriage guardian has sat beside Mr. Penghulu.
Before the sacred event began, the KUA Officer gave a marriage file in the form of a map containing document2 to Pak Penghulu and then showed the bride and groom whether the data was correct.
Alfano and Asmara have read it until they can confirm if the data is correct to Penghulu.
All files are safe, now it's time to enter the core event that is to marry religiously and legally both humans in front of the penghulu and the guardian of marriage.
"Father is ready to marry, the biological daughter of the father named Asmara Raniata with a man named Alfano Yudhistira?" ask Penghulu.
"InshaAllah is ready" said Mr. Wawang with reddened eyes holding back tears because his eldest daughter will be married a second time but with a different atmosphere and taste.
"Alhamdulillah, let's start with Bismillah reading together then Mr. Wawang can read the ijab and will be followed by brother Alfano as qabul" said Penghulu.
"Bismilbornrahmanirrohim" simultaneously everyone in the room.
Mr. Wawang stretched out his hand on the table and was received by Alfano, then they shook hands. The other groom's hand, was holding the wife's hand tightly under the table. Asmara looked at Alfano's face with a moved and happy gaze that became one. The beautiful woman dressed in gold kebaya just stared at the handsome face of her husband did not move until the qabul ijab was pronounced.
"I married my biological daughter, Asmara Raniata to brother Alfano Yudhistira with money worth 5 million rupiah and 50 grams of gold metal paid in cash"
Alfano firmly and passionately answered with a qabul sentence, more confident than he first said 2 weeks ago.
"I accept the marriage, Asmara Raniata bint Mr. Wawang with money worth 5 million and gold metal 50 grams paid in cash" said Alfano with 1 breath.
The mahar given is the same as the dowry when married siri yesterday.
"How are the witnesses, SAH?" ask Pengulu to Mr. Jarman as a witness from the Asmara family and Om Hendra as a witness from the Asmara family.
"AH!!!" yell at everyone in the room.
Then came the words of Hamd who also echoed in the room.
"Alhamdulillah"
For the second time but with different feelings without coercion, Alfano and Asmara SAH became husband and wife religiously and legally.
Then Mr. Penghulu gave a prayer for the bride and was greeted by all the people in the room. Next, the husband and wife signed a marriage book and some marriage documents.
Everyone was happy to congratulate and take pictures.
The family event and the photo together was completed in KUA, Asmara Alfano and the marriage guardian, Pak Wawang, were called to come to the penghulu room because they wanted to discuss something.
The three of them entered the hall and were welcome to sit in front of the desk.
"I congratulate Mas Alfano and Mbak Asmara on their marriage, hopefully becoming a sadinah mawaddah family. And congratulations also to Mr. Wawang has managed to marry his daughter smoothly" said Penghulu.
"Alhamdulillah, thank you sir" said Mr. Wawang.
"Amiinu. Thank you sir" said Alfano alternately with his in-laws.
"I want to explain something about the law of marrying a pregnant woman. I do not intend to be bad or inform things that are not good for the newlyweds I marry. So you guys do not tense up" said Mr. Penghulu who tried to melt the atmosphere because he saw the three guests who had begun to tense up because he heard the name pregnant woman.
"In order for there to be no misunderstanding, I explain first yes. Apologies in advance for the bride, is it true if the wife is pregnant before the wedding?" ask gently without any bad intentions.
Alfano firmly replied "It was because of my mistake, sir. True, if our children were present before we got married, but we'd make them not feel discriminated against by that fact"
Mr. Penghulu smiled hearing Alfano's assertiveness.
"Well, her husband is gentlement. I salute the young people who honestly admit their mistakes" said Mr. Penghulu. Asmara and Pak Wawang just looked at Alfano with a look of disbelief, the man who 2 weeks ago was very arrogant and like he did not want to account for his mistakes, now became very opposite.
"good. Well, I mentioned first the rule of law in Indonesia that in the regulation of Article 53 of the Compilation of Islamic Law (KHI) of the article contains three (3) verses, namely: 1. A pregnant woman is out of wedlock, may be married to the man who impregnates her. 2. Marriages with pregnant women referred to in verse (1) can be carried out without waiting for the birth of their children. 3. With the implementation of marriage when a woman is pregnant, no remarriage is needed after the child is born.
For the position of your child in the law will be explained like this, in Article 99 of the Compilation of Islamic Law (KHI) states there are two definitions of legitimate children. First, a child born in or as a result of a valid marriage. Second, the child is the result of legal husband and wife conception outside marriage and is born by the wife.
So, God willing, your child will be born legally as the child of both your parents. But yes when they ask why they were born not long since you were married, that's your job to explain wisely" explained at length penghulu.
Alfano, Asmara and Pak Wawang also smiled because they knew the information they really needed. This marriage will bring the child to be born Asmara has a clear status.
"Thank you very much Sir, it has been explained important things like this. I really need the status of my son and do not want to hurt my wife" Alfano said with a smile of relief.
"Thank you sir, I as a future mother was no longer afraid of the clarity of the status of my child. I have also previously heard that pregnant out of wedlock must be married again but from the explanation of the father it turns out if it is legal to marry when pregnant does not need to marry again. Alhamdulillaah then, I and my husband InshaAllah will carry out our duties as good parents for our child" sahut Asmara with eyes sparkling happy and relieved because this explanation makes him understand the status of marriage and his son later.
Mr. Wawang who just listened was also happy. Eventually his daughter could become a legitimate wife.
"Thank God, O Allah. You have given our son happiness after the pain he felt. Give Asmara and Alfano a happy married life" inner Pak Wawang.
After it was felt that what was conveyed by Mr. Penghulu had been received by the three people, the meeting was finally over. Alfano took Asmara and followed Mr. Wawang in front of them to the KUA hall where all his family was still there waiting for them.
Bu Asih approached her husband and asked what Penghulu was talking about.
"Dad, what the hell is it going to be long enough?" ask Bu Asih curious.
"Just order a message for the newlyweds" said Mr. Wawang briefly so as not to explain it too much and his wife believes it.
"All the brothers present here, I as the father of Asmara would like to thank you for attending to witness the happy day of my daughter with my daughter-in-law" said Mr. Wawang with a smile.
Everyone smiled at Mr. Wawang.
"Please get permission, Mr. Wawang. After this we go to the photo studio first yes, because we will do a distudio photo to capture this happy moment" said Bu Laras.
"Boleh, Bu Laras" said Mr. Wawang.
They all left the KUA office and headed to their car parks.
"Dear, I forgot to give the envelope to pengulu sir" said Alfano when he entered Alpard's car.
"Yes already, Mas to Pak Penghulu's office again there. I wait here, my mother also sent her studio address to me" said Asmara.
"Just wait for me" said Alfano.
"Sir, please take care of my wife for a moment. I went into the KUA office again" Alfano told the driver.
"Ready sir" said the driver.
Alfano got out of the car and ran into the KUA office. Finally, not long after, the man who had been a LEGIT husband Asmara was back in the car.
"Alhamdulillah, already" said Alfano relieved.
"Alhamdulillah. Mr. Penguluhnya is willing to marry us and provide an important explanation of the kayak earlier, indeed we must give appreciation" said Asmara while holding Alfano's hand.
"Yes dear. Finally got a book!!!" happy Exclamation Alfano makes Asmara embarrassed because there are drivers but this pregnant woman just smiles.
"Sir, you can walk" said Asmara who directed the driver to the photo studio.
The other car had gone 15 minutes ago, but Asmara had sent a message to her mother and mother if her husband had entered the KUA office again to Pak Penghulu because of forgetfulness giving the envelope. The two mothers could only shake their heads while laughing at Alfano's forgetfulness.
