MY SISTER ALWAYS SNATCHES WHAT I HAVE

Ep. 41

"Ouch..", 'Fitr said that fell on someone's bump'.

"Sorry..sorry cave ngak deliberately", 'Say a man who had hit Fitri'.

"You're doing nothing right?", 'Ask the man again and try to help Fitri to get up'.

"It's okay" 'Jawab Fitri and refused the help of the man she didn't know'.

"Sorry harried, because I was in a hurry", 'Tap the Man again'.

"Yes nothing, next time if the road is clay-wild", 'Speak Fitri'.

"Lu really don't do anything, do you?", 'Ask that man again'.

"It's nothing", 'Jawab Fitri and rush to his class because it's about to start'.

The man only noticed Fitri from afar, so he forgot what he was going to do next. Though he said hurry, but still benggong there see Fitri, hehehehe.

Until in his class Fitri was sitting on one of the benches that are still empty.

"Hi..", 'Who is a girl who is also her age'.

"Hi too", 'Sapa Fitri back'.

"Include my name Weni, whose name are you?", 'Chap Weni'.

"I'm Fitri", 'Jawab Fitri'.

"You also joined PTN bimbel?", 'Ask Weni again'.

"Yes, you too?", 'Ask Fitri back'.

Yes, yes, why else Fitri is in this room, this room is the place to go to PTN, hehehe.

"Yes the same dong us", 'Jawab Weni again trying to melt the atmosphere'.

Fitri is a person who is very difficult to be close to a new person. He prefers himself rather than having to try to SKSD (sook know the close pretentious) with others, his falling prestige, hehehehe.

Difficulty getting along with new people and joining new communities is a symptom of avoidant personality disorder (avoidant personality disorder).

This can be caused by several factors, namely, not confident, trauma of the past will be insult or ridicule, can not accept lack of self, unstable emotions, can not accept criticism, can not accept criticism, do not dare to take risks, trying to be the same as others rather than yourself.everyone must have advantages and disadvantages of each.to build confidence starting from loving yourself. the key is to always be grateful for what we get, but that doesn't mean we don't try to be better, start by learning to accept criticism from others. work according to the abilities you have. You must know yourself better first so that you will be more confident to introduce yourself to others.If you want to start a conversation, look for a topic that you can master, like about hobbies or activities that are usually done. talk as leisurely as possible and avoid cutting off the conversation of others.that way you and others will feel mutual respect and social fun.

Source :https://www.sehatq.com

But if we already know more closely with Fitri, then he is a cool person, splashy, polite, and can also be taken crazy together.

Shortly after speaking with Weni, the class began. They also focus on the material.

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"I have to how to deal with the emotions of Angga's brother that are becoming more and more. Did I call Brother Jeni again, and did he call Mr Fitri?, or follow what Kirana said yesterday?", 'Rara's confused speech should do What'.

I tried to follow what Kirana said, and Rara also tried to remember what Kirana said yesterday.

negative emotions certainly need to be controlled so that they can not harm themselves or others.You can try this first: ra:

always think and be positive

you can change the mindset of your cousin Ra and also try to calm him down and always speak positively with him.

you should avoid things that make your cousin's brother negative emotions.for example, your phone confiscate his phone first so that he does not use it again and can trigger his emotions.

do some fun activities

because you invite him to do what he likes maybe by exercising, watching, walking and others, which can make him forget what can trigger his emotions. 'Kirana's speech explained it to Rara Kamarin and is still remembered by Rara until now'.

Source :

psychology today.accessed in 2023. 5 ways to get your unwanted emotions under control.

"But what Brother Angga wants, I take him out so that he breathes fresh air. In order for her Emotional to be better", 'Rara said again who is still confused'.

When Rara thought about how to fix her emotional, suddenly Rara's phone rang.

"Whose number is it?, why is there no name", ' muttered Rara who found a new number calling herself, and Rara also rubbed the phone screen to pick up the call'.

"Hallo", 'Rara said'.

"Yes hello, this is true on behalf of Rara?", 'Ask someone behind the phone'.

"Yes, who is this?", 'Ask Rara again'.

"It's me Fitri Ra", 'The person who called Rara is Fitri'.

"Thank God Fitri want to contact me, sorry brother yesterday I asked for help with sister Jeni, because I tangent have to ask for help with who else", 'Ucap Rara'.

"Yes Ra is okay, relax. Jeni told me everything" 'Jawab Fitri'.

"Continue now how is Angga?", 'Ask Fitri'.

"Yes that's aja kak, mahalan more severe and he also often ngingau name brother", 'Jawab Rara'.

"You've tried to take him to treatment, for example to the psychologist Ra" 'Ask Fitri again'.

"Not yet, if you take it to the psychologist, you have to go to the city. And I'm afraid Angga's brother does not want to, and there he will even more rampaging", 'Jawab Rara'.

"But Angga's parents know about Angga's current condition Ra?", 'Ask Fitri again'.

"Not yet, sister, I haven't told you. Mama is also in town. I ask for help with Brother Fitri yes, try to talk to Angga. Who knows with Brother Fitri talk and persuade brother Angga, Angga can return like before. I beg you brother", 'Jawab Rara pleaded with Fitri'.

"Yes Ra, I will help you even if only by phone. And I'll try to talk to Angga" 'Ucap Fitri who is also worried about Angga's condition'.

"Yes, sister, I give her mobile phone same brother Angga first yes brother", 'Rara said'.

Rara ran to Angga's room, and gave the phone to Angga.

"Sir Angga, this is Mr. Fitri want to talk", 'Ucap Rara gave the phone that the call has turned into a Video call'.

Rara left Angga and Fitri talking together, and also looks very happy to hear the name Fitri earlier.

"God, thank you, God, thank you for bringing the prayer of the servant of Allah. Hopefully with this Angga's brother gets better", 'Rara said gratefully'.

What are Angga and Fitri happy to talk about?.