My Friend Meet In Pesantren

courtship law

ustadz Aknan who had wanted to participate in the jama'ah prayer saw two of his students precisely the two santri together in the mosque foyer

"assalamu'alaikum" greetings

"wa'alaikumsalam" the two of them answered.

Aisyah " uh mari ustadz assalamu'alaikum" said her go.

"wa'alaikumsalam" the two of them answered.

ustadz Aknan "hayo..wapain here instead of directly entering? want in gundulin's head?".

Syafi'i " uh don't dong.. later so what if the bald reduced his handsome later".

ustadz Aknan "Heleh "

"ustadz?"

"Hem"

"can nanya?"

"what?"

Shafi'i" ustadzThe dating is haraam not really?"

ustadz Aknan "emang during the pesantren why only dong ga tau"

"hehehehe"

ustadz Aknan" In Islam itself the term courtship never existed and was never known. That is why there is no evidence that reads 'Do not date' or 'Date is haram' or anything like that.

In addition, we will not find a chapter that discusses specifically about dating in the books of previous scholars, Because what?? Yes, because indeed in Islam never known the term COURAN"

Shafi'i" Then what makes dating illegal???"

ustadz Aknan" that's because, the courtship in it there are activities" that violate and lead the perpetrator to do Zina

Shafi'i"Hah,zina???"

"kalo courtship do not happen.Lagian courtship jg dating Syar'i kok."

ustadz Aknan "Right? ".

"Where is the courtship of Syar'i..Don't make it up" and make your own law.Jgn want to be cheated about taaruf who disguise dating.

"Lying of sins"

Zina has a level.Yaitu:

First, Zina Ain

(Zina of the eye)

looking at the opposite sex with pleasure. When dating usually like to look at each other, right?? (field facts)

Second, Zina Qolbi

(Zina of the heart)

thinking about or imagining the opposite sex with a feeling of pleasure to him. (Hayo??Still want to deny gk nih)

Third, the oral zina

(Zina speech) discusses the opposite sex with a feeling of pleasure to him. Well this, the perpetrator usually has no boss to talk about his girlfriend, anywhere and anytime. Smpai gk realized, while wishing Allah.

Fourth, Zina Yadin (Zina Hand)

holding the body of the opposite sex with a feeling of pleasure to him. Well, usually this is the level of adultery that can plunge the culprit into Zina is actually adultery, namely Zina kemalu'n. Mindzalik.

Shafi'i "So, what is the law of courtship?"

ustadz Aknan "The courtship became illegal because its activity led to the deeds of Zina"

Whereas in Islam itself, let alone commit adultery, approaching it is already forbidden.

As the word of God says :

"And do not approach adultery; indeed, it is an abomination. And a bad road"

(QS. Al Isra': 32)

Indeed, not all courtship perpetrators commit adultery.(he said).

But from its activities it has included zina as we have discussed above. Well, those activities have also been included in matters that approach adultery.

In addition, courtship is said to violate God's commandment because in addition to approaching adultery, courtship has violated God's commandment on the prohibition of dating.

Shafi'i "What the hell is that?"

ustadz Aknan "Berkhalwat here means both-male and female who are not mahrams.

This is clearly forbidden, as the word of the Prophet :

"A man cannot be alone with a woman except in the company of his mahram"

(CHR. Bukhari 5233 and Muslim no. 1341).

Both of them have violated the commandments of Allah...

Shafi'i "while in courtship???Any together??"

Shafi'i "Then when we fall in love, what do we do?? Gus?"

"Love is not fitrah, times are fought?" continue on

ustadz Aknan "Can dating but islamic?

"Falling in love is human. The feeling of love is true"

"*But that does not mean that it makes us His disobedient servants. Making us break His commandments and prohibitions is clearly good for us.

Syafi'i "Then is Islamic courtship allowed??Gus*? "

ustadz Aknan "hmm courtship, with whatever we call it, however we pack it, if it violates God's commandments it is not justified. Islam has set about what steps to take when we fall in love.

If you have been able, then marry, if not able then shaum (fasting)lah. Keep the view, because it will take care of our hearts friend.

(open Surah An-nur :31-32)

When we fall in love let not that feeling be resisted, but control it Because if we fight it we will certainly not be able to fight it.

No one forbids us from falling in love, harboring feelings or likes in someone, it is our nature as human beings. If God forbid love to exist, how can we exist today?

Again, God does not forbid us to fall in love. But God keeps us from feeling it by His rules. God tells us to bend our eyes, because God knows our eyes are weak and easily blinded.

God tells us to pray when we are not ready, because God knows our weakness is difficult against our passions.

If we fall in love, give it back to Him. Let God hold our hearts. Allah is the Owner of the Soul and the Owner of Love.

If You Can't Find a Mate in the World, God willing, our Love Mate in the Hereafter. We can choose as we please. Everything is Halal for Us. Tasty right??

Expand charity so that later found the best soul mate. If he loves us Because of God, he will not be able to date but directly to the guarantee.

"so can't you date tadz ?".

"no, why did you want to date?".

"hehehe yes" he said, showing a row of his teeth.

"it really should be in the gundulin on the head"

"eh do not ustadz promise not to repeat again.means that you can not change dating means hijak to pelaminan ya tadz?".

"the real school.naji which is actually. proudin parents used to be looking for a partner. njai not really school grades are still so already willing to take people's children".

"continue why is Gus still single? kan Gus Aknan has succeeded in making parents happy.Nah will stay in love with grandchildren would be happier Abuya. uh but already have a grandson from Gus Hamzah but no papa added grandchild added rame. huh gak Gus?". his chat endlessly.

"astaghfirullah is really a disciple one. want to be punished? uh huh? ".

" uh no....Gus was just joking about the original mouth of a ceplos... hehehehe......"

"yes, it's in there".

"ready Gus. assalamu'alaikum"

"wa'alaikumsalam" he said then sighed resignedly then shook his head.

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Aisyah and Zarra who went home first waited for their two friends in front of the school gate.

"assalamu'alaikum". said 3 people behind Aisyah and Zarra.

none other than Husna, Syifa, and the admirer of the moon is Shafi'i.

"wa'alaikumsalam"

"hi Shah". greet the moon admirer.

Aisyah who heard that twisted the lazy eyeball.

"what else?" with a somewhat upset tone.

" i've been enlightened by Gus Aknan and I won't ask you to be my girlfriend again"

"good" cut it off when Syafi'i has not finished speaking.

"eits dengerin first"

"what?"

"i will not ask you to be my girlfriend but I want to invite you to marry because said Gus Aknan if it is suitable mending directly marriage.

"huh"

"huh"

"huh"

"astaghfirullah" only Aisha was privileged.

' his mother cravings what used to be when pregnant she can be so kayak gini really your behavior does not match her name' Inner Aisyah

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Ramadan full of blessings 🤗🙏

especially in this episode there are many messages conveyed rather than the dialogue of his character.

sorry there are so many typo🤗