Mr. Cold Falling in Love With Miss Somplak

Not a perfect human being

hearing Ahem's momentarily silent speech, the man looked through the eyes of the girl he loved.

in the end, the man began to talk.

"the reality is all women want the same thing, they obviously want to get the ideal partner"

ahem said later.

"Talking about the ideal partner, each person must have their own criteria. For example, we can see it in terms of physical, career success, or personality."

"The criteria are indeed the most common standard for most people to convince themselves to step into marriage. However, how exactly is the ideal pairing criteria?"

"Sucks, bebits, and weights are often the determining standards in choosing a mate."

"Bibit means the background of the offspring of the prospective partner in this case parents or family. Bebet relates to the economic level of the prospective couple. While weight, is the quality of the self of the prospective partner who is more inclined in terms of personality, education, or other achievements."

"This philosophy is often a valuable advice and message from parents to their children who have reached the ripe age for marriage."

"It is considered to be able to determine the future of marriage relations in order to obtain a harmonious and lasting household life.  However, these three criteria are sometimes not quite relevant to the facts on the ground."

"Where it could be one of the three criteria is not fulfilled completely. For example, when a prospective partner only meets two of the three criteria of the ideal candidate is fully able to determine whether it is suitable or not so the choice of a mate."

"And believe me sometimes not necessarily bad seedlings produce good children, also not necessarily good seedlings produce bad children, because not infrequently if a father gamblers his son a successful, successful, and not necessarily a good seedling, also not infrequently if the father is a successful person his son is destroyed"

after saying that the man stared at Hayat for some time.

"one key when you want to continue to a higher level, Convince Yourself"

ahem said later.

"The decision to get married is not the end of a relationship, but the beginning of a new journey with a partner.Makakita is not surprised if a number of people choose to establish a courtship period with the aim of getting to know their partner more closely. For they will not only tie the knot together but also marry each other's families"

"and before making that decision there is one suggestion that men can give to a woman"

"He's responsible for himself

She doesn't expect you to be a servant and a mother, both at once. He can take care of himself without you. He lets you support him during difficult times, but he doesn't leave everything to you to improve and serve his life."

"He is responsible for his actions, no human being is perfect, not even him. When he makes a mistake, he can confess and take full responsibility without blaming others for the bad decisions he made. It shows a very great maturity."

"He listens where this is one quality that most people don't have, but good people have it. because most men do not like to listen to him who always insist on being heard in this day and age"

"The man who really listens to what you say and takes it seriously. If he asks about your days and he really pays attention to your answer. where you tell him something about yourself and when you ask him one and he really remembers it then keep it, because when you have problems in the household, you have problems, he hears you and doesn't want to act victorious alone"

"it seems that men sometimes in courtship pretend to listen to your words seriously but when you ask him back he forgets what you said yesterday to him, and he opens up. a good listener when you are married, he has a selfish nature, stubborn want to be understood, want to be heard but reluctant to understand and reluctant to be heard"

"He is a consistent man who can consistently take the time to talk to you and see you. when you have an appointment where you're on time but he's late and worried and guilty then he's a consistent type of guy who's afraid to repeat mistakes, if he thinks it's normal, be careful"

"And the man who loves you, he will never lead you astray"

"He will not lead you or rather lead you astray. If she has no intention of getting into a serious relationship or monogamy, she tells you right from the start. He will not lead you to bad things that will only harm you"

"i'm not saying I'm perfect but coming back to you sometimes is necessary even though sometimes there are not fathers some families and men who are not like the seeds of weight"

"yet this reality remains that you are so far educated at home and the way parents teach their children reflects the nature of their children, when his father was a male female addict then be careful could be one, I said one of his sons would usually follow in his father's footsteps"

"if in his house often said dirty and dirty I dare guarantee his children will say like that on the outside, even if his parents can not appreciate others and always curse, he said, so rest assured that their children have the same nature of themselves to others and even feed their fellow brothers or even their wives someday"

"it's just part of the picture that you can consider considering myself, prioritizing the best seedlings, especially, about the sustenance of God does manage it but still do not forget to look for a man who likes to work hard early because the reality is if the man is reluctant to work hard and a lazy then one day you which is the rib will be used as the backbone in the family, because one day his true nature will come out, do not forget to see how he treats his parents, he said, since a child is not afraid of his parents, he will not be afraid of his wife, let alone his father-in-law"

"when a man cannot appreciate the people around him, So do not be surprised if one day he will not appreciate your hard work and say homework and taking care of children is not at all tiring compared to his work"

after saying that Ahem developed his smile, he took a look at Hayat's eyeballs then continued his words.

"We are not perfect human beings without the drawbacks of Life including myself, but we need good eyes to find those hidden imperfections in order to be complete."