Mas Duda Looking For Mom Milk
Require ASI
Now, after Cellia's funeral, Tama and the family return to their home. Deep sorrow was also felt by both Cellia's parents, Mother Rini and Father Budi who were so devastated by the death of Cellia.
"I'm sorry, Father and Mother, Tama wholeheartedly rested in front of Cellia's parents. Apologizing for all the events that happened this time.
In her heart, Tama also felt that she also contributed to Cellia's death. He didn't check on Cellia until she was completely gone. Just saying goodbye to sleep and keeping Baby C that Cellia said, the rest no longer have impressions and messages.
"No need to apologize, Tama. Everything is indeed God has outlined," replied Harja's father who held both shoulders Tama and asked him to stand.
Mother Rini nodded her head with trembling shoulders. "True Tama, everything has been outlined by God," replied Mother Rini.
At least the whole family can understand one thing that human life is just a line that God has set. Man is only limited to living, but the soul mate, sustenance, and death are all in the hands of God. Everything is in his control. No matter how hard man tries, but when God has outlined, that is what happens. Similarly, Tama, he did not think that his wife who said goodbye was only limited to sleep, apparently just returned to Rahmatullah.
Tama then sat down, with a wave on her head that was still so heavy. A deep wound that just scratched in his heart. His eyes felt puffy, just wanted to be clear it felt unable.
The bloodless wound that slashed his day, only Tama did not know how long it would take to heal the wound. It was very painful, and Tama lost her soulmate in a very tragic situation. Bamitan to sleep, in fact Cellia actually returned to Rahmatullah.
"Tama doesn't know, how to live this life without Cellia," he said with the ******** that felt so heavy.
A man's sense of helplessness who loses his partner and has to babysit his newborn baby himself. It is sad, at the age of 28 years, Tama must be a Widower and at the same time be a Single Father for Baby C. Everyone who has ever been in the Tama position will feel the same way. Loss combines with the helplessness to be a single parent to the baby.
"Now, focus on Baby C, Tama," said Bisma.
At least Tama's relatives this one is a Pediatrician Specialist, so Bhishma has attention to children. Moreover, newborn children must get affection and adequate nutrition.
"There is an urgent thing that we have to do now, which is get ASI for Baby C," explained Bisma.
Indeed all families grieve, all loss, but there is a new life in Baby C that needs ASI as the source of his first life. For that, Bisma said that Baby C needs ASI immediately.
Ah, then Tama remembered. From birth, Baby C only gets ASI when Early Breastfeeding Initiation. After all Baby C has not drank breast milk again.
"How do I get ASI?" ask Tama.
Bisma also thought, then he looked at his wife who was breastfeeding Airlangga, their second son.
"Darling, you didn't bring ASIP?" bisma asked his wife.
She nodded her head, "Give it to Baby C first. Sincere?" bisma asked his wife.
Kanaya nodded her head, "If Baby C drinks my breast milk means she becomes my daughter, Mas .. So one day she should not marry Airlangga who is one milk with her, because it is not her mahram," reply Kanaya.
Bhishma nodded her head, "Right darling. So, Tama .. let Baby C drink ASIP belonging to Ms Naya well?" ask Bisma now to Tama.
Tama and her family nodded their heads, "Yes Mas, thank you," she replied.
Kanaya took the ASIP she had already pumped and she kept it in the ASIP pocket and handed it to Aunt Marina.
"This is Auntie, can be warmed first," said Kanaya. While handing over some bags of ASIP to Mama Marina.
In this case, Kanaya did not breastfeed Baby C directly, rather she donated her ASIP to Baby C who did need ASI.
"Baby newborn can last 48 hours without drinking ASI. She still gets food from the rest of the placental sac attached to her navel. However, it should not be too late to give ASI, because it can occur dehydration and the consequences can be bad," explained Bisma to the whole family.
The importance of breast milk for the life of a newborn baby. Fully Bhishma knows, now in a mourning mood, but Baby C should also get his nutrition immediately. Do not get dehydrated and bad for him.
Tama nodded her head, "Please Mas Bisma and Mbak Naya .. only, if this ASIP runs out how?" ask Tama.
As the new Father and having no experience and knowledge, Tama is also very confused. What if the ASIP which is only a few pockets is exhausted. The primary need for Baby C is ASI.
"Kanaya may be able to donate her ASIP, just for the next plan find Mother Milk for Baby C. Because Airlangga drinks it is also very much, if giving breast milk to two babies is afraid it is not enough," replied Bhishma.
According to Bisma's thoughts may be that his wife can help by donating her ASIP. It's just that considering the needs of ASI Airlangga is also a lot, and Kanaya also works, then Bisma suggests to find Mother Milk for Baby C.
Tama who listened to the advice of Bhishma, scrunched her forehead. "Will anyone work to be Mother Milk, Mom?" tanyakanya.
"Some, try to find it first. You can post on your social media maybe. I'll also go to the hospital. At least in six months, he got ASI or exclusive ASIP, Tam," Bhishma replied. As a Pediatrician, Bisma does emphasize on the importance of babies getting ASI in the first six months of life.
Instantly, Tama's head felt dizzy. Unfinished the grief and hurt in her heart, she also had to find Mother Milk for Baby C. Because, if only waiting for breast milk donors from Kanaya will not be enough. Because, there will be a baby phase experiencing Growth Spurt as well. Growth spurt is a growth spurt in infants that occurs early in the months after birth. In this phase the baby can be fussy throughout the day and feel hungry constantly. Therefore, Tama must find Mother Milk for her baby. Although finding Mother Milk is not easy, but Tama will try. Hopefully there is someone who wants to work as a Mother of Milk for Citra.
