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Advice to the two brides

" For that, so that the wedding ceremony runs solemnly I only provide health in the form of points that are easy to remember. In the introduction I said that marriage in Language means collecting and the ability to do conjugal relations. In Law No.1 of 1974, mentioned marriage is an inner birth bond between a man and a woman as husband and wife with the aim of forming a happy and eternal family (household) based on the Godhead of the Supreme Being.Based on the hadith of the Prophet. in order for household life to run well then there are some things that need to be considered; first, understand and have a tendency to religion. Religion in this case the religion of Islam should be used as a basis and guide in married life. Execute the obligations that have been charged to us sincerely and obediently will certainly provide convenience and blessing in family life. If we are far from religion, maybe God will send Sakinah to us. Knowledge and practice of our religion is still minimal whether it has allowed us to get a family that is sadinah mawaddah warrahmah. If there are differences of opinion, disputes and quarrels in the family, make religion as a standard and reference in solving problems. If personal opinions, ego and passions are expressed then of course there will be no meeting point. Praying is also very important to do so that Allah SWT provides convenience in carrying out household life. Prayer is a strength and a weapon for a believer. Prayer can give hope and foster enthusiasm in trying. Second one. Trying in life. In addition to the prayers that have been done, effort is a necessity in married life. Without any effort, the family will have difficulty meeting basic needs. In religion we are taught that we must be sure that the sustenance is from Allah SWT. For there is not one beast on this earth except Allah will give him sustenance. But to get it there needs to be effort in order to meet the needs of yourself and also the family. Third, there needs to be science. He likened that someone who will sail in the middle of the sea must first know everything related to it in order to live it safely. Likewise, in this life we must have knowledge about life. Households also have knowledge, trying is also the knowledge. Whatever we do has to be based on science. Do not do something without knowledge, later the consequences become not good. Fourth, rely on Allah SWT. Relying on God is done after trying and praying. Everything we do when it has been done to the maximum and pray to Allah SWT then the result we submit to Allah SWT. But if our efforts have not been maximized we have relied on Allah SWT, then the placement of trust is not appropriate" said Penghulu.

" Dewa mas and Mbak Kia already understand about what I said just now?" asked Penghulu

" Already sir." God replied, KIA just nodded his head.

" Sir Kia, you want to ask me for a moment with mbak?, what is the duty of a woman after marriage mbak." asked Penghulu while looking at KIA carefully

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