Love Jihad

EPISODE 22~ Learn to Start~

#Sorry yes in this episode, the author must lecture so that Darren & Annisa can be aware to accept matchmaking and love, especially so that the first night spit, marketing right.

" Listen, guys, we're both learning... Marriage in Islam is indeed one of the worship in Islam. The purpose of marriage in Islam is to build a household in Islam that contains the family sakinah mawadah warahmah.

Make a par guy-cwok nih need to be considered when we choose a partner, look for a wife who sholiha because what is best jewelry is a wife who shalihah. You are rich, many treasures but we as men can not educate a wife yes just as well because the prayer woman is obliged to keep her aurat, can keep the association, having a shy nature and again a shaliha woman is never afraid to marry a man who is poor in property, but is afraid to marry a man who is poor in science and poor in responsibility. Even so you guys don't be lazy, don't think" my wife shaliha, I don't work, I love to eat rice as salt also would want", don't ya. It's called a lazy man and no responsibility. We as guys have to capital dong, right? are we not ashamed of the capital of love, do not misunderstand the meaning of the wife of shaliha. Because what we as men should be the responsibility of birth and inner and support birth and inner. Birth is a living in the form of salary/money, we are obliged to support our wives, the inner living is yes you must know what is doing husband and wife relationship, we must support our wives, make no mistake, friends, the field of reward is also for those of us who are married, who are not married, it can be a field of sin, hehehehehe besides pleasing the wife, making her happy, making her happy, don't torture his mind. If the husband asks, the wife should not refuse, if the wife who asks for wahh is even good farm reward for the wife. The girls later must also please the husband, do not judge the same husband, if the income drag, do not be angry2 the husband, the husband can not ration, if the income drag, because the Prophet said “The woman who is the inhabitant of heaven is a loving one, many return to her husband who when her husband is angry she comes to him and puts his hand on his hand and says : I cannot sleep well until you are ridha”. (Mu’jamul Ausath no.5644)."

Sometimes Adam steals a look at Annisa and Darren sees it. Annisa, who heard the Tausyiah Ustadz Alkiti, made her realize what the purpose of marriage was. She felt guilty for not being able to serve her husband.

" You know, if the soul mate is unique. Why is unique, usually the person we are chasing away, who accidentally even approached, continues as if it had certainly become doubtful, which was initially doubted to be certain, he said, which was originally always in the dream of endless marriage continues that we never dreamed of eh even together at the guarantee. That is why it is said to be unique, my friend2 all."

Darren&Annisa thinks back to hearing the words of Ustadz Alkatiri, they just met, knew for a while, then in a match just like that, yes it is unique Darren&Annisa relationship. That's what Darren&Annisa's mind is all about right now. Whereas in Adam's mind is is Annisa his soul mate or even someone else???

" The soul mate is the secret of God's friends, how strong we are faithful, how long we wait, how hard we are patient, how honest we receive him, if God does not write our soul mate with him, yes it still doesn't happen. Even I myself used to be in search of a soul mate with my parents. I just accept we used to be acquaintances &taaruf, and thank God we are fooled pdahal we have never met at all directly faced by both families 2. Try not to be confused, sya taaruf not until 1 month directly married. But it turns out that the pleasure of lhoo pacran after marriage because it falls in love with marriage, so sticky actually dahhh, bener2 world belongs to both,hehehehehe. If dating before marriage temptations are heavy, there we even approach zina, for a girl who loses money, in pacarin but not in marriage,astagfirullah... Akhi-Ukhti Do not say love if love finally courtship because it is not the love of his name if it ends in sin but say the love that finally married because your love will be glorious before Allah SWT.Subhanallah. I'm sure my parents chose a mate for me to definitely find the best not the random origin and alhamdulillah age our marriage 12thn more. God is good, God chooses the right mate for us without us knowing, sometimes what we think is good is not necessarily good, I am sure when our parents help find a mate for us, he said, they must know what's good for us. So my advice is not that we are afraid to be paired, we have an introductory stage first, he said, even if it is not suitable we can talk carefully with parents and for those who already have a partner and seek the blessing of parents, diligently we pray that our parents' hearts become soft, soft,willing to accept our partner, do not let us marry without blessing let alone elope. Do not let us hurt the hearts of parents & Durhaka.This means we must pray, try &ihtiar yes. Not always the matchmaking is bad friends so you do not need to be afraid or angry even to hurt the hearts of parents for refusing the matchmaking. Because it's true that the friends they say that dating after marriage is subhanallah great pleasure. May today's tausyiah can give enlightenment for those of you who will soon want to get married, who still want to pursue a career may you be successful, faith & Islamnya added, lest we mingle, lest we get along wrong, introspective & always close to Allah SWT. And again my message, choose him who can not only accept what you are and be proud and happy to have you but also able to guide you in the way of God and say no when you are wrong. Well enough friends so many of our tausyiah, if I have a wrong word, I apologize because I am just a human being who is a lot of lack and God willing we meet again in the next tausyiah... ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇

الْحَمْدُ لِلّه رَبّ الْعلمِيْن وَلصَّلاَةُ وَالسّلاَم عَلى اَشْرَفِ اْلاَنْبِياَءِ

وَالْمُرْسَلِيْن وَعَلى الِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ اَجْمَعِيْن اَمّا بَعْد

Wassalamualaikum Wr.Wbs. " Ustadz closed his Tausyi with a prayer and salam.

" Mr.Wb." Answer all students.

" O Allah, forgive the servant with the attitude of the servant, it is true what Ustadz Alkatiri said." Inner Annisa while looking towards Darren from a distance and it turns out that Darren was looking towards Annisa. Their eyes met each other and they both threw smiles at each other from a distance. Kevin, Rio & Tori saw Darren's suspicious attitude as Darren and Annisa threw smiles at each other.

" Oath yes, the ustadz talk this time really makes me think about a soul mate." Rio said.

" Yes I think again, I feel good as dating after marriage. Free to do anything. I am getting older. We repent yuk. We're bad enough." Tori the playboy. His words made his friends shocked.

" Lo's healthy, Tor. I really want to be insyaf." Connect Kevin.

" Hmmmmm, okay I'm a bad boy but I also want to get a good girl, shaliha girl like Annisa. If Annisa from outside the shrimp clear it's apalgi inside it." Tori said while imagining Annisa.

" I also wish I could get my wife like Annisa. Annisa is beautiful, shaliha, graceful, perfect." Connect Rio. Tori and Rio got the news from Darren.

" Basic pervert."

" What is sensi." Ketus Rio's.

" And I also hope, Rachel went back to Indo and I'll propose her. I've been too long and too the same dating sin and fortunately I can control myself." Said Kevin.

Kevin & Rachel have been dating since High School, even before their courtship is close like a pacran, even they often kiss before there is a dating status. For Rachel if both want to mean yes love is not coercion and indeed they are always hot when dating, well let alone Rachel who grew up in America with a free association style, which is very popular, when she graduated from Junior High School, Rachel returned to Indonesia and after graduating from High School, she returned to America to study every month Rachel to Indonesia to visit Kevin. Fortunately Kevin is still strong faith so not until ML same Rachel, even though Rachel continues to tease him. Rachel is also close to Darren, Rio & Tori have been friends for many years. For Kevin when Rachel leaves, Kevin feels calm but when Rachel returns really Kevin is afraid of losing control because Rachel is very aggressive, in men who try to put up with Rachel who is sexy..

#Visualnya Adam yaa, Prince Arab hehehe