In-laws And Daughter-in-laws
Let Me Marry Your Daughter
“ Sir, Mom, I came here today deliberately to propose to my father's daughter because I and Michelle intend not to date again, but rather heading to a more serious level” Spell starts talking slowly but surely, hoping both parents Michelle bless them.
Michelle who had just sat down with a burning sense of joy was instantly worried that her parents would not allow their desire to unite. He began to stand up and left the room because he could not hear it. Well, his logic and feelings clashed so he couldn't think clearly, but one thing he believed in. A man comes to see his parents in a good way, impossible not to be well received by his family. It's just I don't know maybe because like a hurry, everything is like a dream. Michelle wanted to wake up from that dream and try to accept whatever it was.
“Allow me to marry my daughter and Ibu” Spell again pleading for permission to both parents Michelle” of course this makes Michelle even more unfazed. He did not expect the man to actually propose to his parents, begging Michelle to be his wife, his life partner.
“Nak Eja, not the father does not approve, of course Michelle's happiness is our happiness, does not your decision seem too soon?” Mr. Ardi closed his eyes for a moment trying to digest everything to make sense. Ms. Nita did not want them to take any wrong steps.
“Nak Eja, not even mother does not want to approve, but mother's message is in the 3-5 years of marriage is vulnerable. Sanding, food, board are the pillars of household wholeness.”
Just like what was heard from the conversation in the front living room, Michelle was unable to hear it anymore.
“Michelle, Spell want to go home” her brother arrived2 disperse daydream Michelle.
“Oh yes, alright sis, makasi”
“You sure you want to marry her?”
“Yeah Chell, it's about marriage, brother hope you don't carelessly choose orang”
“Hmmm” Michelle just nodded and passed leading to the living room.
“Chell, sister go home first yes, later tonight we chat more”
“So be careful on the road yes brother, call Michelle when it's home”
“Pak, Ma'am I permission to leave. Thank you for accepting me to come here”
Michelle frowned, how is this? How outcome? Michelle wondered inwardly with an erratic feeling of raging into one. Happy, worried, afraid, sad, now enveloped the little girl's feelings.
What he should do. Michelle was confused because she wanted to know how it went. And of course her parents told her directly. That they approved Michelle's decision. Because for them the most important thing is Michelle's own happiness. For the future of course they as parents do not lose their hands. If there will be problems that come, of course, they as parents will always be alert and become Michelle's back. They will also educate Michelle as a good child, a devout wife and obedient husband. Although they know that their child is the only girl who is the most spoiled, sometimes difficult to manage, likes to win on their own. But they understood that Michelle would come to her senses on her own. And of course learn how to behave, as a child, a wife, and a mother later. Unceasingly Michelle was given long advice by them. That as a wife, of course, there will be limits to parents, where when a problem occurs, as a parent, you cannot interfere or participate in other people's household relationships, including your own child's household relationships, but what is said by parents is certainly not a bad thing but a good thing so as not to just make the household relationship destroyed, especially if you have children. Parents will always prioritize children so that if there is a problem, then children are the ones who must be considered responsibility. Therefore, patience in building a household is very important. That is the key to happiness in a household. Suppose there is a problem that is really trivial, of course, the problem should not be exaggerated. Especially when it comes to economic issues, patience with frugality is certainly important, because household needs ranging from eating, bathing, clothing, and child education are very important. If you are tired of taking care of the household, be patient in terms of understanding, mutual understanding, communication is slow and clear so as not to become a misunderstanding and trigger a fight. As for the thing that is no less important is about the relationship of in-laws and daughters-in-law as well as brother-in-law. In-laws are parents themselves too, and vice versa, so there is no mention or call of your parents, parents, their position is the same as the parents themselves so it is necessary to be respected, he said, loved, and loved. So long they counseled their only daughter. This they do so that their children do not make mistakes that can trigger arguments in the household especially until the occurrence of unwanted things such as divorce. Because for them it is very bad for everyone. For them, of course, it is a sign of their failure to educate children. Not to mention the negative stigma people have about divorce. For them the child is a reflection of themselves so they do not want their children to fall in the wrong direction. Household does not have its education in schools or universities, but the family is where its household is formed, without which the family household is not formed. The family would not exist without a home. This is what makes them continue to look after their only daughter. As women, it is not a minority, not a deficiency, but a power without women, there will be no offspring so that there will be no family or household. Likewise with men without her, the figure of women will not feel safe and protected. Therefore, husband and wife play an important role, and can not be separated, let alone stand alone with the advantages of each will not be able to complement each other even just make each other's shortcomings. Husbands are clothes for wives so the opposite that the advantages and disadvantages of each other will complement each other and fill each other.
