Husband My Son Conglomerate But Udik

Bab XXXI's. Aging Together Until the End of Life

Mr. Anwar is now sixty-seven and four years old. Age that is old enough. However, because always happy and happy Mr. Anwar is given good health. Her intact love for the family has become a great immune, bringing positive energy and synergy.

The age gap between Pak Anwar and bu Hamdanah five years, although younger age bu Hamdanah, but able to follow the mindset of Mr. Anwar as the head of the household. So that good harmonization is established, solid and unpretentious.

"Grandmother, still look beautiful, huhaah," Deasy teased her grandmother who was watering her beloved flowers in the garden. Zahra, that afternoon also accompanied Hamdanah's mother to water the flowers. "Oohs... You can, grandma is old, beautiful is you". Deasy's nose was touched spoiled by Hamdanah's mother, "just pantes, grandfather so dear to grandma". "Beauty is not a pretty face, but must be beautiful also be understanding, beautiful is not a guarantee. Beauty is also a pleasure and can be a disaster". "Koq can?" A smile suddenly appeared and joined in listening to Grandma's conversation with Deasy.

"Yes, the beauty of the face is indeed a very special gift from God to His servant, although the beauty of the face is also not a meaning not a gift lhooo...., But sometimes man pursues physical beauty without thinking of spiritual beauty. So many beautiful women are wrong to use their beauty in a direction that is not good or not commendable" "for example, what grandma?" said Deasy. A lot of it, dear... There are many beautiful women out there but entangled into the black world, trapped in free association also exists". "Well, how is Grandma?". " We can best guard ourselves from reprehensible deeds and associate with good people, because unkind association can cause people to change, to be unkind".

Good moral planting to his grandchildren both men and women is always understood by Hamdanah and Anwar. "As provision and guidance in life". These words become a character booster in every line of life. Said Anwar sir. Educating boys is also different from girls. Boys are taught more independently, responsibly and loudly. Evidently his children have now enjoyed the pattern of teaching and education in the family of Mr. Anwar.

The sacred promise that is not tarnished, makes the household of Mr. Anwar and Bu Hamdanah harmonious, but not without tests. But both are able to pass through the ripples in the household.

Households are like stairs that even on the steps one by one from the bottom, from zero. From one, two, three, four to the next phase.

"It's not easy". Said Mr. Hamdanah, maintaining a household, the husband tested with honesty and loyalty, and on the contrary the wife tested with patience and fortitude, the cycle is the same to achieve a marriage that is sakinah mawaddah wa rohmah and back together in heaven." If you have feelings of jealousy, can you?". Fatimah. "May, but do not exaggerate yaah, whose name is excessive is not good, jealousy is a spice in the household, jealousy is a sense of love". "Mom ever jealous?" "Yes... Of course, let alone the father of his person is good, supple and not stingy to everyone, the nature of the father was once misinterpreted by one of his employees, if not wrongly named Ratnasari, ampe the mother of the one widow, hehehehe... However, because the mother tried to remain patient and continue to show harmony throughout the father's employees, Ratnasari finally embarrassed himself, and resigned from the father's store, even though she was also willing to give up. However, apparently the love of the father is also quite large for the mother, so that it can avoid bad deeds". " Why are you telling me now?". Yaaa.... I'm keeping this a secret, just so you're okay, because it's not good you know". Hamdanah's mother bowed her head in remembrance of the event that made her heart ache.

"It is not wrong for the father to choose the mother, as his life companion, the lady's mother is honorable and commendable with her ethics, kind and obedient to the husband, we are so fond of the mother.... ". "Thank you Fatimah, and my other children, actually live among the call of the Adhan". Bu Hamdanah put the book in his hand and drank the sweet tea that had been prepared by Fatimah.

Adhan dhuhur heard from al-Mubarokah mosque, "Fat, mother entered first yaah, ayoo we are ready to pray dhuhur, soon the children also go home from school". Fatimah accompanied Hamdanah's step.

So great is the love and affection of a mother, can not be replaced. The mother figure becomes a glow that is able to ignite the burning embers of the fire of spirit. "blessed are the women who have the title mother.the story of love throughout life". Ibu Hamdanah although mother connect but able to be a good mother.

Fatimah and the other children, grateful and grateful to have a mother as good as Hamdanah, he said,. No glare with treasures, no laughter with luxury. A nice and humble person.

"bu, ayooo we pray together". Mr. Anwar this afternoon is at home, only half a day in the store. "yes sir. ,mari... Invite others, so that pray together in our home mosque". Sons and daughters also, as a habituation from childhood, the introduction of congregational prayer in the family of Mr. Anwar is also tanamai from an early age.

Their enthusiasm also prepares themselves, with love and happiness respectively. Zahra stood beside her mother Fatimah. While the others are still at school, in the store with their respective activities. The grandchildren of Mr. Anwar all schools in religious-based schools, of course, every dhuhur prayer is carried out together in schools.

After the dhuhur prayer, they headed to the dining table for lunch, a special menu according to orders from Hamdanah and Pak Anwar, asem vegetables, sambel, lalap petay and cucumber, bentong fish, sambal terasi, sambal terasi, not to forget crackers and salted fish. Sponges with this one menu, served with still hot conditions.

"alhamdulillah, scrumptious". Mr. Anwar expressed his gratitude, "if the menu kayak like this do not have to use a fork and spoon, enough with the hands, more delicious". If the children eat the same food menu but vegetables and rice are united, just do not eat salted fish. It was replaced with sea fish.