Forced to Marry a Bad Fig

Forced to Marry a Bad Fig
Mother's Advice



Mother, Kirana and Akbar had dinner in a warm atmosphere. For the presence of the mother in their midst. Akbar felt that he had two wonderful mothers. Mother's attitude is so gentle and looks patient. Inversely, it looks like with the child. Her eyes glanced at Kirana who kept smiling and occasionally laughed as mother told her mischief as a child. Akbar's eyes sparkled even if just staring at those lips that kept curling smiled and Kirana's eyes were filled with happy glare.


Eh wait! Am I in love?


Akbar was amazed at the question from his own mind. Then he nodded slowly and said. Not Akbar!


"Akbar." that voice made Akbar flinch and looked at you. His eyes were nervous for what reason.


"Yes Bun?"


"Are you quiet?" ask Mother after swallowing her chew.


"That thing is a quiet bun." Kirana who said she was chuckling.


"Ulu ulu... already know the personality of her own husband?" teased mom with meaningful eyes. Both husband and wife were silent. Startled and then sighed softly.


"Udah dong Bun, 'will have stayed together too, '" said Kirana clumsily. Mother's eyes turned to look at Akbar. The man smiled in response.


"How many books did Akbar write?" ask Mommy while smiling warmly.


"To fourteen Bun" said Akbar briefly.


"Well, said Umi you average novel by your best seller."


"Not Bun, just a few. Emang Umi aja who likes excessive," said Akbar while smiling clumsy.


"Ah time anyway?"


"Udah ah, at the mother's meal. Until the food is not touched. Later just chat with her brother," said Kirana with a grumbling tone. As if objecting to the words of his mother who impressed admiring Akbar.


Akbar resumed eating while the mother looked at Akbar and her daughter in turn.


After dinner is over. Akbar returned to his room to write. Especially because you want to give time to Kirana and mother to talk together.


***


"Mother wants to talk," said the mother with a serious look. Kirana swallows Saliva. Did he just make a mistake? Kirana thought that fine, she did nothing wrong.


"Yes Bun," said Kirana slowly with worried eyes.


"Are you the same Akbar all right?"


"Well Bun," said Kirana spontaneously because he had suspected the question of the mother.


"Related?"


"Yes." Yeah."


"Anything okay?"


"Yes." Yeah."


"Never take care of a husband?"


"Yes." Yeah."


A few seconds later, Kirana blinked in surprise.


"Eh what was bun?" tanyanya while glancing innocently. Mother took a long breath. He knew, Kirana was a proud woman and liked to win by herself while Akbar seemed to be an indifferent and uncaring type of man. Their relationship is clearly seen by someone as experienced as mother. Akbar and Kirana are not like husbands and wives in general.


"When Kirana decides to get married, Kirana should know, what the science of marriage is and also about rights and obligations. As a wife of course."


Kirana silently listened.


"From the beginning we were all so, was Kirana sure about this marriage. Mother was afraid that Kirana accepted this marriage because she was forced to. And if that's the real truth. Kirana herself forced herself to marry Akbar. Let me remind you, this is a wedding baby. Promise before God."


"First of all, Kirana must learn to take responsibility for her own decisions."


Kirana remass the end of her house shirt. Dare not to raise your head and look into your eyes.


"Eventually, has Kirana ever known the hadith about refusing to serve her husband and will be cursed by an angel until morning?" ask Mother gently. The girl spontaneously looked at her bunda with perfectly rounded eyes.


"First: Ash-Shaikhain narrates from Abu Hurairah Radhiyallahu anhu from Nabi Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, he said which means : “If a husband takes his wife to his bed, but he does not obey her, he said, then the Angels will curse him until morning.” "


Kirana stared at the mother. Although Akbar never asked. What if the man asks for his rights soon? It has to be how?


"The second: Assy-Shaikhani narrated from Abu Hurairah also he said, Prophet Shallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam said which means : “If a woman sleeps by leaving her husband's bed, so the Angels cursed him until morning.”"


"The third one"


"Udah Bun!" cut Kirana off quickly.


"Why?" ask Mommy gently inversely proportional to the gaze intimidates her. Kirana fell silent and then looked down deeply. Mother grabbed Kirana's fingers and gently crushed them.


"Dengerin yaaaa darling, the curse in the hadith itself described by Imam an-Nawawi lasts until the dissolution with the dawn and the sense of need from the husband, the apostasy, or by repentance and the return of the wife by fulfilling the wishes of the husband."


Kirana looked at her fingers that were linked to her fingers.


"One last post. Al-Imam ath-Thabrani narrates from Jabir bin ‘Abdillah Radiyallahu 'anhu “There are three people whose prayers will not be accepted, and their goodness will not ascend to Allah, and their goodness will not ascend to Allah, (1) a man so drunk that he came to his senses, (2) a woman hated by her husband, and (3) a servant of peril who ran away so that she returned and put her hand in the hands of her master.”


Kirana swallowed the saliva with great difficulty, did Akbar really hate her?


"Akbar is doing his duty, right?" ask Mother gently. Kirana nodded.


"The last one you want to remind. Rights and obligations are two things that cannot be separated. Each of the wives and husbands have obligations to each other. If the husband has a duty, his rights must be fulfilled, dear."


"Kirana knows Bun" said Kirana slowly. Mother breathed a sigh of relief. Actually mother is not in-law or mother who likes to say something frontal like to Akbar earlier. Mommy just wants to make sure something by teasing Akbar with the word 'girl' and seeing Kirana's response now, you are sure that the estimate is correct.


***


Akbar is now sitting behind the wheel with his mother next to him. He went to the Cakrawangsa house to escort the mother-in-law.


"I'm sorry Bar, mama ngerepotin."


"Neither Bun, Mommy' is also Akbar's mother. No need to say that," said Akbar while smiling faintly.


"A lot of patience ngadepin Kirana."


Akbar glanced at his in-laws. Then look back straight ahead. Remembering the look on Kirana's face and when she wanted to leave, Kirana said carefully. Akbar began to feel there was something sensitive that was discussed by Kirana and mother. Probably related to him too.


"Oh yeah, almost forgot. I was gonna tell Kirana but I told you the same, huh?" ask the suddenly excited Mother. A moment Akbar blinked in wonder and then assented.


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