Fell In Love With My Arogan

Definition of Love

Season two

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"Like doesn't mean love, and love doesn't mean love."

"I mean Dad?"

"Daddy means like and love is one meaning the same, but has a different meaning."

"For example, you have a boyfriend and your boyfriend says you love you, but he doesn't like your behavior, or your friend likes you because you're good, does your friend mean you love you?"

Gavriel shook his head to answer Daddy's question.

"So love isn't necessarily like, is it? Or love is not necessarily love, right?" dirga asked who answered nods by the child.

Dirga exhaled for a while, hoping for a complicated explanation that he would explain, understandable to his son, who had begun to grow up but innocent at the same time.

"Dear, love, likes. These three flavors are actually not things that can be explained, but different if felt directly."

"Customized?" ask Gavriel.

"Yes ... If according to theory it is very simple, love and affection are greater than likes. You can easily like someone. For example, if you meet a woman who is beautiful and in accordance with the ideal type, then you can feel like. However, that doesn't mean you have love and affection for her."

Dirga saw his son who nodded in understanding, as he continued to explain his version of the theory of liking.

"Like is demanding and love is giving and receiving, whereas affection is sincerity. Affection is usually shared by a mother to her child, who is unlimited and expects rewards. And vice versa."

"While love and affection are almost similar, it's just that affection is usually unconditional and is more directed to family, parents, sister or brother."

"Like is not necessarily love, because likes are only limited to an obsession with something we see. Whereas love is a sincere feeling in the heart at something we like."

Gavriel was silent as the Daddy explained long, puzzling questions.

Not that he can not define, but like according to him is not something related to love, like for him is a sense of unease when there is someone near him.

"So, in your own opinion, love, love, what is it?" tanya Dirga finished her explanation.

"According to me?" ask Gavriel to make sure.

"Yes ... What say?"

Gavriel kept silent for a moment, thinking of a simple word that he thought was right, with what he was going to tell Daddy.

"Like well ... I think that liking it is a feeling of comfort. Love is the feeling of wanting to make her smile, laugh and be angry just because and to us, whereas affection is the feeling that makes us want to keep making her happy."

Dirga nodded in understanding, his son Like himself, when explaining what love according to the version of the child.

Love is like that, wanting to see anything related to someone who is loved only because of his actions, not the actions of others.

Like angry at him, spoiled him, or also the laughter of him, even quarreling just want him because of ourselves, not others.

Quiet ... After hearing the answer from their respective versions, the Daddy-son couple mused over the explanatory sentence earlier.

"So, who is confusing you like this?" dirga asked suddenly, making the child who heard gasped in shock, but was able to be covered with an extraordinary calm attitude.

"Who?" parrot Gavriel pretended not to understand.

"You can't ask, just because you got a question from El and Ezra. Aye right?" ask Dirga on target.

"Nothing" Gavriel replied calmly, as the Daddy saw him.

"really?" ask Dirga playfully.

"Eh."

"Gavriel," call Dirga in a serious tone.

"Yes, Dadd."

"Why do you think Daddy loves your Mommy so much?" ask Dirga seriously.

"Because Mommy also loves Daddy," Gavriel replied with frowning brows.

"Partially if Daddy and Mommy don't love each other, El and I can't exist, and grow with the rain of love from Dadd and Momm."

Dirga chuckled when he heard the child's answer, plainly the answer.

"There's not necessarily love, there's marriage not necessarily love."

"What the hell do you mean, Dadd?" gavriel asked increasingly cluelessly.

"Marriage is for profit only, marriage is for offspring only, marriage is only for fulfilling obligations. All of that may not need love" explained Dirga at length.

"Political marriage?"

"Yes can be called like that" Dirga replied with a nodding head.

"Once again Daddy explained. Love is sacred, only felt by the heart. Sweetheart it's a sense of pleasure that grows in the heart, whereas like it, a taste but not necessarily enter the heart."

"When you can feel the beating in the heart, jealousy squeezes the heart, and anger overwhelms the heart. Then it means that love comes without you knowing, for whom you love and when it happens," explained Dirga at length.

"When you start feeling love for someone later, you will do everything for that person. Your heart will pound only because of it, your smile will always rise because of it, and the shadow of his face will always be present in your eyes."

"Remember Gav, liking it is different from what is called love. So ... If there is someone who makes you like, not necessarily he will also make you love." he continued to end the babysitting session.

"I understand" muttered Gavriel softly.

"Feel that beat, don't be blind just because you like it for a moment. Usually the love that blows only briefly, while true love, will make you pound until it feels like dying."

Dirga was silent for a while as he felt the child was digesting what the purpose of the beatings, which had been conveyed by him.

This is according to his experience, when he used to like someone just because the person made him comfortable, but it turns out his love is only a momentary love that hurts.

Debaran when he felt in love with his wife, even still felt by him until now.

"How old are you?" dirga asked out of the conversation, making Gavriel frown but still answer as well.

"15."

"Daddy, at that age did not think too much about what is like, love and affection. Because according to Daddy, Princess is everything. Love, love and love Daddy only for him," said Dirga recalled, when he was only with the Mami, while his father was busy working.

"Daddy has no friends to talk to, Daddy only knows numbers and percentage counts, Daddy doesn't care about anything."

"Even Daddy had time to think, whether until Daddy was old later, Daddy would only be with Eyang Putri. Because Daddy used to feel like but it wasn't love."

"But it turns out Daddy was wrong, your Mommy changed everything. Her behavior, her smile, her pussy, everything about her made Daddy give up on the nature of love."

Gavriel once again became a loyal listener, as the Daddy recounted his life experiences.

"What do you think you've learned from Daddy's explanation?" tanya Dirga looked at her son, with a warm smile typical of a father.

"Daddy loves Mom and Eyang so much, Daddy loves Mom with everything Mommy has. Daddy just loves Mom."

Dirga nodded confirming the child's answer.

"Daddy's advice, learn and explore the likes, affection and love one by one. Do not be tempted by passionate likes, also do not fall asleep because of the moment's pounding."

"Do I have to try one at a time?" ask Gavriel.

"Certain ... Once you know the difference from the three complicated feelings, then you will be able to distinguish, actually what you are feeling at that time. Like huh? Baby huh? Or is it love?"

"Your heart will lead you to true love. The Debaran will give you a clue. And, when thousands of butterflies are scattered tickling your heart, at that time you will soon find out, what taste you are feeling at that time."

Gavriel was silent, looking at the handsome face of the Daddy who was smiling warmly towards him.

He felt that what Daddy said had a point.

Right too ... Why is he confused just because the question with the theme likes, if he himself has not felt the debate too much.

Maybe it is ... But what is enough to make him sure, if it is a real debate and not a stirring debate as said the Daddy.

Actually lately he began to feel it, there is someone who can already make him feel the thump.

Do I have to find out to be clearer?

If so he should play with his own heart and his own feelings.

And that way, he would be even more sure, if he was a real blow to her.

"Dadd's."

"Eh."

"Comfortable and used to it, which one did Daddy choose?"

"Obdominated, of course. It means we're comfortable with it, while comfort doesn't necessarily get us used to it."

"OK!"

"There again?" tanya Dirga was ready with a thousand answers.

"So Dadd, if we feel angry and jealous, when we see someone who is used to us, suddenly being with someone else, is that also love?" ask Gavriel seriously.

"Jealous and angry, not necessarily because of love, it could be because of the fear of being set aside. But different again, if his jealousy and anger are followed by actions that suddenly change drastically."

"Like evading?"

"It could be, because if it wasn't love, that person would express his dislike immediately, so we could introspect ourselves, instead of avoiding the one that ended up with a long misunderstanding," dirga stared at her curious son.

"Actually ... You're asking, because you're experiencing it or just because of the likes of El and Ezra?" ask Dirga suspiciously.

"Suppose like that, Dadd," replied Gavriel.

Dirga silently smiled meaningfully, as if she knew who the child was referring to.

"But ... What's wrong with comfort?" dirga's mind does not understand.

"You've grown up," the seductive Dirga rubbed her son's hair dear.

"What the hell is Dadd, don't say it like that" muttered Gavriel embarrassedly, making Dirga chuckle a little, so even Gavriel would not want to come along.

"But Gav," said Dirga suddenly, stopping his piety made Gavriel also stop his pity.

"Hn?"

"If you can, then yeah. Wait for you to succeed and be able to stand on your own two feet. So ... When you are confident in your love, you can be proud to spoil your woman later. Do you understand, what does Daddy mean?" dirga explained, then asked seriously.

Gavriel of course understood, what the word of the Daddy meant.

He thinks he is very young and still wants to achieve his dreams and make his family proud.

"Of course, Dadd, I clearly understand what Daddy's words mean. Daddy take it easy, I'll make sure that in the future. My name will go down in the world as a successful entrepreneur, then Daddy and Mommy and everyone will be proud of me later. Gavriel Wijaya will make sure of that."

Gavriel solemnly made his promise, making Dirga smile with pride at his proud son.

"Daddy wait for that moment," Dirga slapped her back to give her support.

"It seems like it should be,"

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