Bethel

Chapter 22 Preparation for Aryan and Dance Marriage

Now Arya and Tari are in the jewelry store of a large Mall in the Kasablanka area.

"Nice gold?" Dance showed a ring on her finger.

"Good darling, whatever you wear is all good." Arya with full thump.

Once they've tried and fit immediately prepared by the salesperson.

......Aryan Wedding Ring and Dance......

Arya and Tari are Dinner.

"Darling, when we get married, where do you want to live?" Arya asked Tari.

"I'm also still confused about Sie Mas actually?" The heavy dance left her mother.

" Where does Mas Arya want to be?" Dance asked Arya's opinion.

"If Mas actually has an apartment, Mas used to think that married people want to build a household with Mas's wife and occupy it. But if now Mas's handing you where to stay. Because I want you to be comfortable, dear." Arya holding the hand of Dance.

"Actually I'm hard at leaving my own mother. But Mother Goddess will also be alone if we live with mother." Dari also thought of her future in-laws.

"Then we stay together 4." Arya answered.

"Where can Mas, does the apartment really fit? Besides, our parents aren't comfortable living in the apartment." Dance gives the answer.

Arya just laughed at the answer of his future wife. Indeed, Arya has never invited Tari to see her apartment, which is now left empty.

"You know, we're looking for a house we can live in with 4." Arya spoke lightly.

"You're talking about buying a house like buying a simple fried banana." Dance head bobbles.

Arya can only laugh to see his future wife who is often not aware that her future husband is a CEO of a large company.

"Dear, think carefully. I'm coming Just in. You see, if I'm easy anywhere so, just as you're good." Arya while raising her eyebrows with OMES gaze.

"Basic! Got a really OMES husband!" Dance is upset with Aryan's joke.

"Yes, soon you'll be a target for my OMESan darling, so be prepared!" Arya brought her face closer talking while whispering.

Dari sees Arya with a horrified gaze but soon she melolot while pinching Arya's waist.

"Aowwwww, Sick Sweetheart." Arya grimaced in pain.

While the two were eating and chatting casually, Tari got a notification from WO regarding the Roundown Akad and their wedding reception.

Dance opens her and tells Arya.

"Well, anyone want to fix it or have any input from this roundown?" Dance to read one by one.

"Just come with you, honey, the important thing is that we both have our names as brides, dear." Arya started again.

Dance is indeed widely heard that when preparing marriage contracts and receptions are indeed women who think more about what and how. Because men do follow the choice of women the goal is for their women to be comfortable and happy with their wedding.

...Arrangement Wedding Event Arya and Dance...

Opening

The marriage contract first opens with an opening session hosted by the host (MC). This begins with reading basmalah and prayer so that the event goes smoothly and is blessed by Allah SWT.

The Reading of the Holy Quran

After the event opened, continued with a recitation session of the holy verse of the Quran. Generally, the family determines who will read the Quran. Usually reciting verses related to marriage and experts chant holy verses and sound melodious.

Acceptance and Welcome

Usually, the male family will come to bring offerings.continued by the giving of a welcome from the male side. After that, the women also did a greeting as an acceptance that could be represented by the elders of their respective families.

Khutbah Marah's

The delivery session of the wedding sermon is usually directly delivered by the head of the KUA or other ustadz who are competent in the field of marriage. This sermon is done as a provision as well as a reminder for the bride-to-be to maintain the integrity of the marriage.

Ijab Kabul

The kabul festival is the peak session of the arrangement of the marriage contract, where the bride's guardian will submit his responsibilities to the prospective bridegroom. This session is the most sacred moment, because the bride's guardian releases her daughter to marry.

When going to enter the kabul ijab process, the two brides accompanied by their guardians are directed to sit in front of the qabul ijab table. The guard and the witnesses are presented in the process. Penghulu is obliged to lead the way of implementation.

After the agreement was completed, the two prospective brides were declared legal as a married couple in the presence of religion which was also reinforced by the statements of witnesses present at the time. Both brides can also perform the delivery of dowry and the installation of rings.

Wedding Prayer

Signing of Wedding Documents

The next arrangement of the marriage contract event is the signing of the marriage documents, including the marriage book. By doing so, the new spouse is not only legal in the eyes of the agara, can also be declared legal in the eyes of the law as a married couple.

Handover Accept Mahar

After signing the document, it is time for the bride to hand over the dowry to the bride. Usually, this dowry is given symbolically in the form of nominal money, jewelry sets, or a set of prayer tools.

Marriage Advice

The bride and groom will then be given advice on rights and duties as husband and wife in marriage advice. At the session, these two will get advice on what can and should not be done as a married couple.

Then, this session can be ended with the silence between the two brides with both parents. This aims to ask for blessing on both guardians or parents of the bride and groom, and also a moment of union of two new families.

Cover

The marriage contract is closed with a prayer reading by the ruler or religious leader appointed by the bride's family.

...The Reception Event...

After the arrangement of the wedding ceremony goes according to the time, the next is the reception. Try to arrange the reception in accordance with the location held. This will make the estimated time of maintenance so that it can be well conditioned.

Opening

The arrangement of the wedding ceremony when the reception is opened by the host (MC). Currently, the MC can lead the event while thanking the presence of male and female families.

The Second Welcome of the Bride

After that, the MC will invite the two brides to enter the reception location and sit in a chair and accompanied by parents

Giving Congratulations

At this session, invited guests are welcome to congratulate and greet the two brides at the venue.

Guests are welcome to Enjoy the Feast

Finished greeting the two brides, invited guests are then welcome to enjoy the banquet that has been provided.

Appearance

Both brides will usually give special appearances as a form of surprise for the invited guests. This performance can be done by singing or dancing, or anything else that suits the wishes of both brides.

Photo Together

Shared photos are something that should not be forgotten at a reception. Usually, the first order starts from the big family and then the closest colleagues, friends and colleagues from both new partners. The bride will capture the moment with the guests present.

Diversions

When invited guests are shaking hands, taking pictures or eating dishes, there will usually be entertainment in the form of song screenings, the appearance of wedding singers who sing romantic songs on stage, and so on.

Closure

After all sessions are completed, the MC will close the wedding reception by congratulating the bride and groom and thanking the invited guests.

As a good preparation, the arrangement of the wedding and reception can be done in advance. So if there is something that must be revised, it does not take a long time and can be completed before the event takes place without reducing the excitement of the wedding.

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