Benalu's Husband Has a Lot

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Finally I arrived at my mother's house, my parents' house the lights had gone out all except the porch lights, it was a sign that everyone was sleeping.

I knocked on the door and said hello, not long waiting, the middle light was on, a sign of someone getting up, the door was opened and the face of the mother appeared with a worried look.

"Asti, you ain't nothing, son?, who's here at night?" 

Mom looked out.

"Asti own buk," 

I dragged the suitcase inside, and she helped pull it, and didn't ask any more.

"Mom make sweet tea yes," 

"Don't do it, Asti just wants to rest."

"Yes, you sleep, let's tell the story tomorrow"

Mother smiled as she rubbed my hair, I just nodded and went straight into my room, this room I occupied before I got married, until now it is still my room, everything there doesn't change.

Immediately I went to the bathroom to clean the body after going back and forth on the trip, after feeling comfortable I finally fell asleep.

***

This morning my body was very sick, maybe in the wind, after the dawn prayer I did not go out of the room again, I fell asleep until I woke up this morning, the aroma of cooking from the kitchen strengthened in my sense of smell, I felt like I was, but my appetite is not there.

The bedroom door was knocked from the outside, and the mother's voice was heard calling.

"Tea, mom's in?"

"Yes buk, just go in" I immediately got up from my fall, then sat back down.

"Teh, tumben's not coming out? Tet's sick?" Ask mom as if she is worried.

"Yes buk, a little bit less well"

"Oh, yeah, or now breakfast used to continue taking medicine."

"Yes buk," I finally got off the bed, and stepped following mom into the dining room.

"Eh there's a teteh? When did it come?" 

Umar was surprised to see me, maybe last night he didn't hear me coming home.

"Last night mar,"

I answered my sister's question with a smile.

"Si Entis is nothing but Tetuh right?!" Ask Umar.

"No, last night I wanted to come back here"

My words lied.

As for Umar's mother, he just looked at me while eating without saying a word.

"Eh... Hehe. I'm sorry, Umar's the tea cob"

I smiled at Umar's whiny behavior, we ate without anyone talking, after I finished eating I went to the room, mother followed me to the room and brought medicine, he then sat down on the edge of the bed.

"Teh, can you come in?" I was standing at the doorway asking for permission to enter my room.

"By sir, come in" 

He came in, and pulled the chair from the dresser, while I sat on the bed next to my mother.

"What happened last night tea?"

I looked down not daring to look at my father's face, mother rubbed my back, and she nodded her head in a sign that I would tell her about last night's events, then slowly I told my father and mother about them, the father seemed to hold back his emotions, his clenched hands held back the emotional turmoil inside him, while the mother sighed like a tightness, maybe the mother was also upset to kang Entis.

"The behavior of your husband is getting less aj@r, only, according to the mother, if you can't stand it better to let go, than you are tormented by birth and inner.!" Mother said firmly.

"Asti also has thoughts to get there buk, but Asti is also confused how to get away from kang Entis, Asti also does not know how to file a divorce lawsuit should be like where?"confused say.

"Actually it's easy if Asti wants to file a divorce, you can help take care of it, but what you are worried about now is that you are, if you leave the house still in the status of the Entis' legal wife, you can help her, it will backfire on you later in the religious court ." My father said more calmly than before when he heard my story about kang Entis.

"But sir, the Entis man didn't work, he did Kdrt on Teteh, so it could be evidence to sue him" I said

"Father understands tea but still the evidence is not strong, if the husband does not work it is not a strong reason, because a lot of wives out there work in place of the husband, the husband, it seems that it is not a strange and powerful thing to be brought to court, for example the Entis later in the court promised to work how?"

Speak at length.

"But he already slapped Asti sir!"

"Teteh also once poured hot water on his face, and hit using a broom, what if he who reported back with the article of domestic violence also ?" You always think before you step, and this is the mind of the father that I can understand, I understand where the direction of the conversation, father, I have to find a compelling reason and evidence to bring my husband to trial

"Now what should you do, sir?" I asked the father, while the mother was just silent, maybe he also understood what you said.

"So according to the mother anyway sir, let's just stay here, let the Entis know the taste of staying in teteh how does it feel? Men do not have the responsibility just let it not need to be taken care of!" Turns out mom's still pissed off at kang Entis .Seen so angry in the eyes of the mother, the father smiled to see the mother angry.

"According to the father, you have to solve this problem with a cold head, if you want to separate immediately finish, you do not get in the way, you will accept you back here and become the responsibility of the father again, because until anytime still remain a father," said the father while rubbing my head.

"Yes sir, Asti will try to be patient first, until Asti can find strong evidence to file for divorce."

Indeed, it seems that I have to be patient first if I want to get freedom from the shackles of this unhealthy marriage, I must be able to prove that this marriage ended not because of my fault.

"Father, I am sure you understand what you say tea, be patient and try, do not forget to pray, may God give a way out of all the problems of life teteh." said the father gave advice.

"but honestly I don't want to buy time for our son to live one roof with that man sir!, he is so evil that he has dared to hurt our son!, he said!, he's just a real husband who's been doing a lot!" it seems that mothers hate kang Entis so much, maybe because a mother is more sensitive to her feelings , especially regarding the happiness of children.

"father agrees buk, but father does not want the image of our son to look bad in the eyes of others, if a wife goes from home without the permission of the husband, if a wife goes away from the house, teteh is an adult so he dares to marry also means he can already face all kinds of trials of life, the father of the same message you want, face this problem do not be a coward run from problems, do not be a coward run from problems, finish it all right, son."

I could only nod at what my father said did not answer.