Behind the Belittle Husband

potluck

after Nanda woke up I took shopping in kawung mpok atik to buy rice and tempe.

"eh the mother's child is awake, want to join the sanity not later the mother buy snacks"

"yes ma'am"

"yes yuk mumpung not yet noon may there still be vegetables"

nanda and I walked towards the village, there were still mothers who were shopping while gossiping.

"assalamu'alaikum mpok want to buy rice 1kg there"

"there's Mar, keep buying anything else"

"papan tempe 2 mpok same kale 1ikat cabenya 2 thousand aja"

"this is Mar all 25th thousand"

"yes mpok this money, uh yes mpok this same cake is 5 thousand only so fitting 30thousand yes mpok"

"yes Thanks Mar"

"eh marni just buy kale same tempeh just have a nutrition yes" said mom imah mocking

"tempe also has a nutrition, ma'am, make no mistake" I replied

"yes mass is just kale same tempe, no meat".

" yes later if the husband is often cooked which is not good even later nyari outside the tablets" others chimed in

"i say yes, mothers want to cook assalamu'alaikum noon" said I

still heard my gosipin mothers, but I have not cared. until the house I immediately cook rice and vegetables, thank God before lunch is all ripe.

"Nanda eat first is already lunch, this morning will not eat just drink milk.later after the meal finished eating snacks" yes indeed I teach Nanda before eating snacks should eat rice first.

after the meal, I accompanied Nanda to watch TV, while writing a story. I had to be more active in writing so that the rupiah coffers collected.

exactly at 2 mas Ardi came home without saying a greeting directly nyelonong enter the kitchen and open the hood of food.

"marni..

" what mas" I replied after reaching the kitchen

"you're just cooking kale with tempeh no eggs or meat like that"

"yes if there is money should be good cooking or meat kalo kayak gini where there are nutrients" snapped Ardi mas

"don't get me wrong precisely tempe a lot of nutrition" said I don't want to lose

"you weigh buy telor 1 for me is also very stingy Mar"

"it's up to mas if you want to eat potluck if you don't want ya already papa eat at the place of the mother again"

"it's good that you've cooked if you don't eat it, you're trying to cook it"

although while ngomel said there is no nutrition in fact exhausted 2 plates. finished eating the messy plate what I cooked was not left by the mas Ardi.

sometimes I wonder the same as Ardi's salary was big but gave money shopping rich not sincere, but if you give to his mother and brother without a second thought immediately given.

"mas how the project was" asked me after Ardi sat down

"what the heck are you wondering if there's no work for you"

"yes, it is not wrong for the wife to ask about the daily life of the working husband"

"don't go to the same husband can be Mar, any want to know you"

"yeah I did not ask again mas, now I want to ask for money to shop only the cuisine was already eaten you all mas"

"money again money that you have in mind Mar, anyways you cook a little just to eat once already exhausted"

"yes how else I have no money, usually just to buy it anyway"

"there is Mar if you want to shop with your money first, tomorrow payday I change"

"i don't have any more money" either"

"jeez Mar just to buy food shopping if you don't want, besides you also eat. don't stingy Mar want to do what money collected if not dipake"

"as you have no right to determine my money for shopping or anything, it's money I have the right to be held. The responsibility of supporting the husband is not the wife"

"from now on I won't give you money to shop Mar, you yourself have money but stingy for shopping"

"whatever mas, if you don't give me money shopping I won't cook until anytime"

I no longer care about this household, it feels cape must always succumb.the more I succumb to the more trampled by mas Ardi and his family.