Ala Islami Romanticism Without Dating

The Steel-Cared Woman

Syaidha Syahila Hisham is a village girl whose life is very simple. This year he just came out of the pesantren, for seven more years he woven religious education in pesantren after which he decided to help the economy of his family with work to become TKW in Saudi Arabia. At first he wanted to continue his education to college, but he also did not want to burden his parents who were getting older and sicker. Therefore he decided to work looking for rupiah sheets to be able to treat the disease of both parents.

Abi is one of the richest men there as an ambassador of Saudi Arabia. Abi was a habib and a speaker, his house was so beautiful and magnificent. In contrast to Umi who lives simply in his area, it can be said that there are shortcomings. Then it makes Umi have to make a living to finance his family life. Because Umi is the backbone of the family and must support his father and mother. Umi had to pay for her sickly parents, while both of Umi's older sisters chose to leave them and now they have no news until now.

Forced Umi to go to Saudi Arabia to become a TKW that used to be crowded in the area that became TKW big salary. With forced Umi had to leave both her parents to go to Arabia alone at home to become a TKW and thank God Umi's parents allowed it. After getting permission from both her parents, Umi went straight to the airport with the people who would become TKW as well. After until they were separated because of different directions and goals. And at that time Umi became a maid in Abi's house, because at that time Abi needed an IRT. Not only that, Umi also became Abi's assistant who took care of all Abi's needs during the preaching.

After a few years Umi worked and devoted her life to serving Abi and even Umi often invited by Abi to go to lecture to every country and wherever Abi went Umi would follow. That's where the seed of love between the two of them, love that can be said “Cinlok” said children today, holy love without courtship. Then they both decided to get married immediately to be a harmonious and happy married couple.

Why did Abi choose Umi? Because Umi is a beautiful and kind woman. Not only that, Umi's dexterity in taking care of Abi is amazingly thorough and alert in any case. Umi is a smart, obedient, cheerful woman, but her destiny and end of love are so complicated and painful. Living poor and having to fight in the country of people in a very young age just to finance the life of his parents, can be said cool and worth a thumbs up. To recite his ideals to be able to go to college and become a successful person who can lift the degrees of both parents. Now it was just a wishful thinking, could not be achieved could make Umi sad. But Umi learned to recapitulate and continue into the time that will be passed. Remembering his love story, the love that once colored each other. Now, it is extinct already with the decision of Abi who menalak Umi. Finally, Umi's love with Abi is so sad, but Umi remains patient and strong through it all. Because all I know is that Umi is a great and wonderful woman. Her life story changed to that of Mumtaz, who was half the journey of my life like Umi. Experiencing many trials in life and love in the household.

Dating after marriage is so beautiful, especially according to Abi and Umi who understand religion. They know that no proposition can forbid us from dating. But all this refers to the proposition (QS Al-Israa verse 17:32). Which reads, “And do not approach adultery, for indeed it is a heinous act. And a bad road. So, the reason is as at the end of the verse, that indeed adultery is a heinous deed or a great sin. So Abi and Umi immediately decided to marry because then they can love and love each other without sin.

After a few months passed was born this beautiful and cute me like an Arab angel. At that time umi was pregnant for 9 months and at that time umi joined abi who was attending an event in sham. After the event was over, Umi felt a contraction in her stomach and finally Umi gave birth to me into this world. Then Umi gave the little baby a name, a beautiful name. Sham Mumtaz Al - Ghiffary El - Shirazy. Sham is the name of the place where I was born. Mumtaz in Arabic means Special. Al-Giffary is a name in Asmaul Husna which originated from the word al Ghaffaar which means most forgiving. And El-Shirazy itself is a name taken from the family Abi. It turns out that El itself turns out to have a unique name that comes from the Greek language which means sunlight and beautiful women.

A few years later I grew up to be a beautiful and adorable child said those who saw it. I was a year old, a child full of funny behavior. Then Umi took Abi and I to visit her house. My grandmother and grandfather's house in Indonesia. Because Umi used to come home just asking permission to marry his choice. Now Umi comes home just want to introduce her grandson, which is me, to her Father and Mother Umi. After coming to Indonesia, especially the house of Mr and his mother Umi, they look very happy with the arrival of their grandchildren. We spent time together, chatting and sharing stories, so warm it was because we could get together again. We also could not spend a long time at grandma's house because Abi could not leave her job there too long. Then we went to the airport and went back to Abi's house.

One year later, Abi asks permission to remarry. What a painful thing, inevitably Umi had to allow it. With a heavy heart, Umi allows Abi to polygamy. It felt so tight, his heart felt like it was pierced by thorns, his feelings and his mind was chaotic. But amazingly a Umi, he remains strong, strong, steadfast and smiles happily when he sees his beloved husband happy. Seeing Abi with his new wife sleeping together and honeymoon both felt very sick, tears always decomposed every day when remembering the good times together with Abi first. Beautiful memories and romantic relationships are now gone in just a moment. Because only an Abi whose title is a habib can have more than one wife and moreover Abi a billionaire so Abi can be free to have another wife.

For three years Abi has been with Umi and his honeymoon, now Abi has a child with his young wife. His name was Arshad Al-Funzy El-Shirazy. Indeed, Abi was never biased towards Umi and her honey, Abi was always fair with his wives and always lived in harmony side by side because Umi treated her honey well and already considered her as her own sister.